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He just left me pregnant!?? Dont know what to do!

dbella20dbella20 member
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I'm only 20 yrs old & I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant! This guy left me & went back to his ex. He claimed he loved me. He even wanted to have this baby more than me & kept trying to get me pregnant, & now that I'm pregnant, he just up & left me like I'm trash. I don't know if I want to abort or keep the baby. He said he was going to give me money to get the abortion, but I'm thinking about just keeping the money & spend it on myself, & just keep the baby & not tell him. I can't really even cry right now, I'm still in shocked, how could he do that to me? I don't deserve this. :(
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Re: He just left me pregnant!?? Dont know what to do!

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  • BillyHorribleBillyHorrible member
    Number 1, you're right.  No one deserves this.  And I'm sorry you're in this situation.

    That being said, whatever you decide, you need to keep the father informed.   Even if he's the biggest asshole in the world, he has a right to know about a child he has.  And your child may want to know their father.  Plus, you can get child support from him which will help you out since you are very young.

    I second both pps about going to talk to someone about your options.  Good luck.

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  • LorMorLorMor member
    Babies cost more than abortions.

    So if you get money for an abortion and keep the baby and spend the money on yourself, how will you support the baby?
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  • DrBatlyMDDrBatlyMD member
    I'm so sorry. I hope you are able to get the answers you need and make the best decision for you and your life.
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