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Loss milestone today

mpiemontmpiemont member
edited September 2014 in Pregnant after a Loss
Today (8w3d) is when my baby stopped growing last pregnancy. I have no reason to think anything is wrong right now, but it's really really hard not to think scary thoughts today. Especially since I had no reason to think anything was wrong last time (I was blindsided at my 9w appt). I'm trying really hard to keep busy until my next appt on Monday. How did you cope with those loss days?

Edit- I'm realizing in my siggy it says my loss was 8w2d. I had 2 US's done that confirmed the MC and I guess they measured around that day (8w 2-3d). So maybe my loss milestone was yesterday and I breezed right through it. Either way- is it Monday yet??
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DS1 born 4/17/11
DS2 born 2/22/13
MMC 5/16/14@8w2d
DD due 5/9/15 Please be our RAINBOW

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  • mrsjg2013mrsjg2013 member
    Big ((hugs))!!
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  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    ((HUGS)) to both of you ladies ( @mpiemont‌ and @BananaBoat05‌ ). Loss milestones are rough. I wish I had some great advise to share, but I don't. I usually try to stay as busy as possible. I hope the day passes quickly and I eventfully for both of you.

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    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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  • chicagojackiechicagojackie member
    T&P to you. and creepy internet hugs ;)
    BFP #1: It's a GIRL! DD born October, 2012
    BFP #2: m/c at 7w, February, 2014
    BFP #3: It's a BOY! Please be our rainbow! Due February, 2015
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  • littlecookielittlecookie member
    Hugs! It's a milestone day for me too. I'm going to lunch with friends, keeping busy, and thinking positively. Hang in there, love. It'll be Monday before you know it.
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  • haleyusfhaleyusf member
    ((hugs)) for you today!

    DS born 10/22/2008
    DD born 12/23/2014

    m/c @10wks 12/2007
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  • SamanthaLaura16SamanthaLaura16 member
    Sending Big ((Hugs)) your way
    Me- 27 w/PCOS     DH - 28
    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
    A/S 8-22-14 - Its a BOY!!
    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat
    ALL WELCOME -
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  • peggels24peggels24 member
    ((hugs))
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    edited September 2014
    ((Hugs)) milestones can be so hard. Just keep repeating the PgAL mantras, today I am pregnant and I love my baby. This is a different pregnancy and baby from last time. Just because it ended badly before does not mean it will happen again. Good things do happen, even to us PgAL ladies.
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    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
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  • BackstreetPixieBackstreetPixie member
    ::hugs:::
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    Started dating Hubby May 17 2005. Married since Aug 20 2011 
    Me:30   Hubby:31
    TTC since May 2012 
    HSG Dec 2012 Fill no spill on left side, right side normal (most physically painful experience of my life..)
    Metformin Started May 2013
    PG#1: BFP 10-21-13. EDD 6-17-14 mmc 12-9-13 m/c occurred with cytotec on 12-11-13 
    PG#2: BFP 07-25-14.  EDD 4-5-15   *Hoping this is my rainbow*
    Diagnosed with PCOS, Hypothyroid,IBD/UC, (UC in remission as of July 2014)
    *I will always love you Fetey the first.* 
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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Milestones are hard:( taking one day at a time I think is all you can do..thinking of you!
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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I have yet to pass my milestone, so no help on that front, but just wanted to send huge ((hugs))
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • carlsonbaby2014carlsonbaby2014 member
    Big, big ((((hugs)))).  Milestones are so difficult.
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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  • nohalo21nohalo21 member
    Milestones are tough to manage through. Just keep telling yourself those mantras. Sending hugs to you and everyone who needs them.
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  • luciddreamer106luciddreamer106 member
    ((hugs)) Repeating the PGAL mantras and keeping busy helped some.
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    BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    Big hugs sweetie!!

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  • lelly0086lelly0086 member
    Hugs! Monday isn't that far away, keep your sports up & remember today you are pregnant :)
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  • ASRDHASRDH member
    Hugs and best wishes to you and your LO. May today be a successful triumph over the past!
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    :x
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  • KMW08KMW08 member
    ((Hugs)) milestones are tough.

    BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!

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  • Eliz77Eliz77 member
    ((HUGS)) Milestones are rough. I think by setting my own milestones and not thinking of loss milestones, that has been what helped me the most. As PPs have stated, every pregnancy is different, so I chose not to compare this one to past ones. Instead, I focused on what comes next-whether it was my 1st scan to make sure intrauterine placement at 5 weeks, then the HB scan at 6 weeks, then the NT scan, then the Harmony test, then the Anatomy scan, then VDay, then 3rd tri...Now, at 29 weeks, the next milestone I have my mind on is my Growth Scan at 31 weeks. 

    I'll be honest PgAL sucks and never really goes away completely. But by taking it one day at a time, one milestone at a time, I found it easier to breathe and not think about previous bad days. 

    Good luck to you on Monday! I hope the next few days speed on by!

    ~ES~

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    TTC #1 since October 2012
    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


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