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TTC second child for 3 years now

kendrasextonkendrasexton member
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I'm new to this online forum thing, but I'm finally just at my wits end. We had our first son in 2010. And 13 months later we started trying for number 2 well, I just had an HSG 5 weeks ago, and found out everything is okay. And got my period today, along with my period came more tears, more depression and more doutinbig that we will ever have another child. I was Hoping that this was the month, I was 3 days latew, not any signs of my period coming then, BAM. I'm just so discouraged this is taking a toll on me. I just don't know anymore.
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    mara005mara005 member
    I'm very sorry you're feeling discouraged, we all understand and please feel free to vent when you need to.

    P.S. My son was also born in '10.


    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!     

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    ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    I'm sorry. :(  Does your doctor have a plan at all since the HSG was clear?  It is so frustrating. :/
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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    barackollamabarackollama member
    I'm sorry! It's good that your HSG was clear but also sucks that they can't pinpoint a problem. I'm in the same boat.
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    BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member
    Sorry you're having a hard time. Have you thought about seeing an RE? 
    **Warning: Losses and living child mentioned**
    BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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    Reagan1010Reagan1010 member
    DS was also born in '10. It's so stressful seeing the age gap get bigger and bigger each month. Are you currently seeing an RE? If not, I would find one immediately. Also, do you temp each month? That is so helpful to me to see our timing each month. If you don't, check out the newbie blog on TTGP. It has so much info on temping. Good luck to you and welcome to the board!
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    emsmama15emsmama15 member
    Ditto what everyone else has said. After three years, you just need to go to a specialist. But, while waiting, read the TTGP newbie blog and start temping and charting. It will give you more information to help as you go forward! Good luck!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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