How is everyone feeling? How is pregnancy treating you and your partner this week? Any updates to share? Any upcoming appointments?
QOTW: Let's talk pets since a good majority of us have fur babies. Are you taking any steps to prepare your fur baby to welcoming your future LO? What are you most nervous/excited for about bringing your LO around your pets?
Me: 30 DP: 30
TTC#1
IUI#1 9/26/13 BFN
IUI#2 10/26/13 BFP beta #1 99 #2 456
2/20/2014 Brynlee Madeline is taken too soon at 19weeks she was perfect
IUI#3 6/10/14 BFP beta #1 276 beta #2 722 20w A/S shows we are having a girl
Re: Pregnancy Check-In (September 29th)
We are trucking along. I am started to struggle a bit with all the body changes... I am getting to the "no hiding this baby in business casual" stage. Meaning, hoodies still hide the bump, but anything that is acceptable to wear to the office is a bit revealing. Luckily, I don't spend much time in the office.... But needless to say, mirrors are currently not my favorite.
As far as aches and pains, I just feel really stiff when I sit to long and stand up, but if I stand up too much my feet hurt! I am finding a good balance and that is helpful.
We had a "Tie Dye Party" this weekend and all of our friends brought white baby things and we tie dyed them! It was a great, more comfortable alternative to a shower. It was nice, and we felt a lot of love.
QOTD: Our fur baby situation is currently weighing heavy on our heart. We have two, very well loved, rescue dogs with some serious baggage. They are both a bit unstable and have some not so safe behavior tendencies. We have paid for training, and everything seems good, but then when we just get comfortable, they will fight each other, or something of that nature. It is really tearing me up. They were both in our lives prior to our relationship, and so for each of us, our pups were the only thing we had at one time or another.
So needless to say, it is a sad, emotional, stressful situation, and we aren't quite sure what will happen...
Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m... Our perfect little miracle. Here's how we got here:
My lovely wife:
5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN
Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train
IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN
IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN
September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon
IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013
December: Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.
IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014, 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools. Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...
1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!
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Got my second p17 shot last Wednesday and another cervical check which was still measuring long and my placenta moved up so they no longer need to monitor that! I go in a Wednesday for my 18 week cervical check and the MFM said they should be able to do an anatomy scan at the same time assuming baby cooperates so may know the sex this week if not our hour long anatomy scan is on the 15th. I am pretty sure I am starting to feel the baby move more and more which is exciting but I get so nervous when it has been awhile without any movement.
QOTW: I have four animals. I am not to concerned about how the cats will adapt to a baby because they are pretty mellow cats. I am concerned about the dogs. Xander has ALOT of anxiety issues and takes months if not longer to adjust to changes in his life and will growl and show teeth to strangers/new things. Oliver is our spoiled baby who thinks he is the only child. He goes out of his way to get between R and I if we are hugging or sitting to closely together. His ideal place to sleep is in between us on the bed so I suspect he will be VERY jealous to something get love and affection other then himself.
Me: 30 DP: 30
TTC#1
IUI#1 9/26/13 BFN
IUI#2 10/26/13 BFP beta #1 99 #2 456
2/20/2014 Brynlee Madeline is taken too soon at 19weeks she was perfect
IUI#3 6/10/14 BFP beta #1 276 beta #2 722 20w A/S shows we are having a girl
CageyMack
37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.
5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered. All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd. 4 fertilized. Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853. Yay!
"Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing
26 weeks, and we are about to round into third and the homestretch!
Had an appointment with our consultant this week and found out that my bp has come up to more comfortable levels. This means that the dizziness is just general pregnancy stuff and not kidney related (yay for that!) We have to wait for labs to come back to assess function of the remaining kidney but when transfer to birthing centre was brought up, she [the consultant] was very positive :-bd
This week, I'm feeling a little more sluggish - I'm sleeping in later, running around less at work and often falling asleep in my chair in the early evening. I'm just so grateful at this time for such a supportive partner and for caring and considerate colleagues, who have been picking up the slack without making me feel like I can't pull my weight - because it drives me crazy, when I can't throw myself into something. And there is now no mistaking that baby's movements are visible from the outside.
QOTW: No pets We are planning on emigrating eventually and have decided that if we do get a pet, it will not be until after we have settled abroad; by which time, baby will be old enough to understand basic dos and don'ts of pet care.