1st pregnancy 1st miscarriage

HopWatKinsBaby · September 2014

I found out less than a week ago that I was pregnant. Woke up this morning to blood. Less than an hour ago found out ive already lost our baby. Im sooo torm about it. I cant wait to experience a full blown pregnancy. Keeping my prayers strong. Hope we can soon rather than later. If anyone has anyanything that could help me get through itd be helpful. Im 25 and feel less than a woman.

klk518 · September 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss! Had the same thing happen to me and just take your own time to heal and don't ever feel like you don't have a reason to grieve. No one will understand how your feeling or what you went through. Best of luck to you in the future! We are all here to talk! Again, so sorry! Sending lots of love!

kpeterson404 · September 2014

Sorry for your loss, I had the same thing happen to me. I found out I was pregnant with a BFP and then a week later I started bleeding. Have you seen a doctor? I would just to make sure everything is okay. I went and glad I did bc I ended up going 5 days later to get meds to stop the bleeding. I finally stopped last night and I honestly didn't think that day would come. Sorry for your loss **hugs**

keziah23 · September 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my first pregnancy one week after finding out I was pregnant. We've been TTC for 3 years.

I hope that you feel better physically and meantally soon.

thiscoffeechick · September 2014

I'm very sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and prayers your way.

ctk181 · September 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you!

xraychick01 · September 2014

Hi there. I just wanted to offer my condolences. I just lost my first pg yesterday. I know how you feel and what you are going through. It's devastating. Just take the time you need to heal physically and emotionally. Best of luck to you!

tamlynd · September 2014

I agree 100% with Kelsey. You take the time you need to greive and you are entitled to that. No matter how long you were pregnant for, it hurts like hell. I knew I was pregnant for 3 and a bit weeks and those few weeks felt like a lifetime. Every decision I made I had my baby in mind. There is no saying that somone who lost a baby they knew about for a week or for 3 months has a right to feel different. You take the time you need. We are all different emotionally. I started off real bad but seem to be pulling myself towards myself more. I still have this complete empty feeling in my tummy and long to have my baby there still, the what if's and am scared about future pregnancies. I miscarried 4 weeks ago. You are also struggling to deal with it now because it is so new to you, 1st pregnancy, 1st loss, first time feeling like this and not knowing what to expect and having your body changing too. Do not underestimate the hormones. . This was also my first pregnancy. All the raging pregnancy hormones are still in your body and once they start to leave,you somewhat start to feel a little better (well talking from experience, I started to feel more like myself. Very sad and emotional, but I could tell the difference from when I had the hormones) I was super super sensitive and even felt cukoo at times, just didn't feel like myself, dealing with such an emotional loss and on top of that having my body changing and also not knowing what was going on and possibly going into a little bit of shock. Xxx we are here for you xxx
MY advice is all of this xxx
I personally am also finding these things helpful,talking about my
experience, making a little memory box. going to see someone, I have seen a psychologist twice now and am finding speaking to an outsider helpful. (I had never been to see a psychologist before my mc) He says I'm sad and by all means am allowed to be. I went through my dads passing 3 years ago and seemed to cope better, I still think it is because of the hormones from the pregnancy, I was extremely close to my dad too, but I do think they are two entirely different griefs and different types of attachments anyway. I could be feeling like I am because of the pain from dads death, and on top of that, losing my child. Not sure xxx Hubby and I also decided to name our baby, to honour him (we feel he was a he) Bai... and if we get to heaven and see that he is actually a she, Bailee. Xxx Bai was kind of what we called our baby when he was still in me, like bay... for baby. And bei is bee in Afrikaans, and bei bee is like baby x I love bees. Something sentimental to us xxx do what makes you feel is right and special xxx no one can judge x
Thinking of you xxx

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