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PrimRoseMama · September 2014

So tell both & get paternity blood draws? When baby is born have baby tested & figure out who the father is.

Save your $ for a good lawyer.

No comment on who you had sex with or why. What you do with your body is your business.

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JennaRaek · September 2014

Just by doing the math with your due date- I'd say it'd be guy #2. I think with the 1st you would have been due more around August?? I'm no doctor. I suggest getting the paternity tests done asap. Good luck!

FWIW: I didn't know when I got KU. They calculated by my due date(how big the baby was) when I ovulated. It was DH's birthday. But my point is - your doctor should be able to tell you roughly when you got pregnant.

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PrimRoseMama · September 2014

saldaz89 said:
Thanks, Jenna. Pretty sure it's the guilt eating me alive from sleeping with 2 different men in a matter of 2 months. I'm trying to get over it and I have an appointment coming up Monday, so I'll ask my doctor about it

Why do you feel guilty? Consenting adults & all that jazz. No one is shaming you.

ETa : wasn't done bump!

You could be the town bicycle & have a different dude every hour 24/7. It doesn't matter as long as you protect yourself & everyone is on the same page.

You might want to be investing in some birth control of a chemical variety if only for your own peace of mind.

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CubanPinky · September 2014

i agree with everyone on who the father is...its more than likey #2.

but sidenote...dont beat yourself up..seriously. i judged myself (and was judged by others) for having three kids, three different father and not married (but currently engaged to LO father right now) for the longest. but things happen, im a adult, i accept my faults and strive to make them better. your ok sweetheart just go to your dr apt and be upfront with them to get better medical advice good luck

:-*

Weezy56 · September 2014

Dude #2. I ovulated Nov 14th the cycle I got pregnant with my son, and his estimated due date was August 10th.

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NicoleAndAiyana · September 2014

I'd say the second but defiently get a paternity test x

Cat&S · September 2014

Impossible for it to be #1's. I got pregnant Nov 30 and had my DD a month ago. If you'd gotten pregnant in Nov, you would have had an August baby.

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Justabean3 · September 2014

it has to be #2. I ovulated 1/17, had sex 1/13 and my eDD is 10/10

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Justabean3 · September 2014

saldaz89 said:
As naive this might sound, especially coming from someone who claims to knows their body so well (me), I never really paid so much attention to ovulation or kept track i.e charts, apps etc.
I just figured I was "ovulating" when I had certain discharge or when my breast would feel perkier or hurt for a couple of days. But I was always told, "you can't know exactly when you're ovulating".
But for ovulation, there's a 3 day window? Or 5? Cause I remember two doctors saying I ovulated from the 19th to the 22nd or from the 20th to the 23rd.

I know when I ovulate bc I spot and cramp heavy on that side plus a pos OPK pretty much concretes that. both my babies have matched the exact day I thought it was too

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JennaRaek · September 2014

saldaz89 said:

Does anyone know how long you bleed for after delivery? And does it happen right away? I'm obviously a FTM..

Yeah, it happens right away. And how long you bleed for all depends on the person. I think 3-6 weeks is about average?? I bled for about 3 with my first. Only heavy for a few days and then very light for the rest. More annoying than anything.

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Weezy56 · September 2014

I bled for about 2.5 weeks and spotted till 4. It got a bit heavier when I wasn't taking it easy and up doing a lot, but once I rested like I was told to do it got better

PrimRoseMama · September 2014

saldaz89 said:
Does anyone know how long you bleed for after delivery? And does it happen right away?
I'm obviously a FTM..

6-8 weeks

Justabean3 · September 2014

With my first I bled 6 weeks to the day

With my 2nd I bled 8 weeks then nothing for 2 weeks, then a giant gush like soaked the sheets, pjs and underwear followed by another 2 weeks (they said I had developed a clot)

Then started my period about 6 weeks after I completely stopped

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