So my toddler 18 months is not laying back down in her crib. The second we lay her down and step away she stands back up and cries. Last night she cried for 20 minutes at 12:30 after I changed her, made sure she is not sick, nursed, rocked her and put her in the crib, the second I left she started screaming and then stood there from 1am to 7 am. My husband and I tried to go in at increasing intervals and lay her back down, pat her back and stay with her but the second we step away she'd get back up. I don't know what to do. I got 1.5 total hours of sleep last night and she is so overtired with 5 hours of sleep at night. She lays her head on the top of the railing and snoozes off but her legs get tired and she startles herself and then keeps on holding to the rail and standing up. I tried practicing with her this morning, how we go from standing to laying down to go down. When she woke up from her nap (2 hours) and after we were up, I tried to teach her how she should lay back down in her crib when it's bed time but she screams and cries really hard.
Maybe it's a separation anxiety at its worse, I don't know. She does not sleep when I bring her to our bed, she thinks it's party time, I tried shooshing or pretending I am sleep and just laying her down and petting her back, she won't sleep (tried when she was sick) or when I lay on the floor with her (again tried when she was sick previously). She is content if I sit on the rocking chair and hold her in the nursing position but I can't do all night long either. I'm exhausted and in tears. I know kids go through crazy sleep phases, this is so new to me. she is so strong willed that I am afraid she'll just stand the whole 12 hours tonight. If she could stand for 7 hours, she could probably do 12 hours.
Sorry if this is incoherent, just exhausted here.
Re: Going crazy please help
Thank you guys for the reassurance that it's in fact normal and another phase. I'm pretty sure it's separation anxiety, she is fine when I am in the room holding her hand, she freaks out when I leave and wants me back.
Is it normal to keep standing for 7 hours though? I thought after an hour or so she'd get tired and lay back down, but she is one stubborn little girl.
Dr checked her, there is nothing wrong physically. She also thinks it's separation anxiety.
ClaryPax, she was not crying for 7 hours. She cried for about 20 minutes after the first time I put her down (after changing, nursing, rocking) at 12:30 am. I went in again at 12:45ish and laid her back down and patted her tummy but she's stand right back up..my husband and I did it many times, she's just stand back up, no crying.
No I did think to give her pain med. Definitely will if it repeats. She was out for the night at 7:30 so I don't think her bedtime is late.
We practiced lots of laying back down on the floor so we'll see.
We have our "Irish Twins"
DD born 8/7/2013
DS born 7/28/14
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