I was suppose to be due 4-8-2015. On Monday, when I was 10 weeks 5 days. I found out the baby no longer had a heartbeat and was measuring at 9 weeks even. This was my first pregnancy and I was completely devastated. The doctor wanted me to miscarry naturally, which I was terrified about doing. Last night I started bleeding heavily. Every 15 minutes or so I got up to go to the bathroom. A ton of blood, every time. After about 3 hours, I was walking back to bed and completely passed out. My husband said I was unresponsive for at least 30 seconds. I thought I was going to die. I've never been more scared in my life.
I ended up in the ER and am doing "ok" now.
I can't imagine going through this again.... Definitely the worst experience of my life.
I read almost every post on here and am praying for you all.
Here's to hoping for a healthy baby in the future.
I'm praying for you and I'm so sorry for your loss! I had an ultrasound at 10 weeks 5 days and the baby had no he and was measuring at exactly 9 weeks. It has been the hardest thing! I'm here if you need to talk!
@KateLM you're so strong. I couldn't imagine going through this twice. I was so sad to leave the April group...!
Isn't it crazy that after you hear the heartbeat the chances of miscarriage go down to 5%? I thought I was free & clear. but everyone I know that's had a miscarriage also heard the heartbeat.
I wanted to have a d&c so everything could be over and done with, but my doctor didn't want me to and talked me into waiting.... And I ended up in the ER.
I was in the April group too and also heard a strong heartbeat a week before baby passed. While I realise someone has to be in the 5% I am still finding it hard to accept. I'm struggling with jealousy over seeing anyone pregnant at the moment and I hate feeling this way
Married to a wonderful man
TTC since 2001
4 losses - last one in september 2014 (9 weeks - male trisomy 15)
High FSH and low ovarian reserve
Ever hopeful that one day my dreams will come true
@kyliehopeful I'm struggling with that 5%. We are in that 5% and it's hard to accept.
It's been hard seeing everyone announce that they're pregnant and due in April. That was suppose to be us too! It's really hard knowing I won't have a child in April, but I'm so happy for others who will have that opportunity. I'm not jealous, because I know our time will come, it just makes me sad! I wanted to be there with them.
Try your best to stay positive! I'm trying my best. It's hard though.
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I hope you're doing well now.
This whole process has been a nightmare.
I was so sad to leave the April group...!
Isn't it crazy that after you hear the heartbeat the chances of miscarriage go down to 5%? I thought I was free & clear. but everyone I know that's had a miscarriage also heard the heartbeat.
I wanted to have a d&c so everything could be over and done with, but my doctor didn't want me to and talked me into waiting.... And I ended up in the ER.
It's been hard seeing everyone announce that they're pregnant and due in April. That was suppose to be us too! It's really hard knowing I won't have a child in April, but I'm so happy for others who will have that opportunity.
I'm not jealous, because I know our time will come, it just makes me sad!
I wanted to be there with them.
Try your best to stay positive! I'm trying my best. It's hard though.
I was due a day after you.
DD 15.07.2012
BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d
BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d
DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!
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