I know we've all been there, and it's been discussed a few times about the struggles with our LOs testing the limits. I'm curious,though, if any of you have successfully found a consistent tool that works to help teach these limits.
I'm really struggling with Madeline today. I turned the oven on to prepare supper. She tried to touch the glass and I told her "No, it's hot". Well this was followed by laughter and another attempt to touch. We did the back and forth a few times, distracted her in the toy room with some toys. I proceed to come back to the kitchen to finish supper and a few minutes later she barrels by me, slaps the oven door and says "hot!" While giggling. Turns out my oven doesn't even get warm on the door, so she must think Hot is a joke. But the fact that she continues to defiantly push by to do something she's specifically and repeatedly been told not to is frustrating and nerve wracking, since the things I'm telling her no for are actual dangers.
What has worked for you guys?
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Re: Testing Limits
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Bradley 05-04-11 & Tyler 06-18-13
I guess what I'm trying to say is, if I don't think of it as her not listening or testing limits but rather as her just not really understanding yet, I find it less frustrating and easier to be patient. It's not a solution that keeps my kid from wanting to stick her hand in the oven, but at least it keeps me more sane.