TL;DR - HR question about how and when to use PTO after FMLA.
Sorry if this would belong somewhere else, but I just need advice from any HR people.
I am a school nurse. This is my 3rd school year. I spoke with HR Friday to adjust my pay for FMLA. I get 12 weeks. If baby comes on the due date (which it may or may not), I will need to return to work in May for 3 weeks. Initially, the 15 days of FMLA were going to be paid because of PTO. **In a perfect world, this is my plan** I gave myself 4 days of PTO from now until the birth that I will allow myself to use only if needed. That will leave me with 15 days PTO left. I want to take the 12 weeks FMLA without pay/PTO. I want to use my 15 days PTO after the 12 week FMLA to extend my leave until the following school year.
I called HR today to see if that is possible and she said probably not. At the end of the year there are charts that need to be closed and "other stuff".
I rolled my eyes and thought 'Like what stuff? You're not a school nurse, you don't know how things work in the health offices'. I work my office, I know what needs to be done and it does NOT take 3 weeks to close off the charts, especially since it's EMR. Besides that, if it's such an issue, who the hell is going to run my office when I am on my leave? KWIM? The world is not going to stop spinning if I am gone 15 weeks instead of 12.
I know that PTO needs to be approved by my principal. I am a good employee, I schedule all my appts after 3, after work so I don't leave the campus without a nurse. I have had about 4 appts and 2 u/s so far and only one appt was in the morning. I don't want to sound like a brat. I know I have a job and responsibilities and I am thankful for it.
DH says they can't tell me how and when to use my PTO (during FMLA like HR had intended). I tell him no, but they can deny my request to use PTO to extend my leave, right?
ETA: HR said I did not need to use my PTO during FMLA. They just may not let me use it after my FMLA.



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Re: HR and PTO question
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If your school works like mine, PTO is approved by the principal, not HR. Who do you submit your PTO sheets to?
Why not just ask, "If I submit it, will it get approved?" They way she worded it, it sounded more like she was discouraging you rather than telling you it would not be allowed.
Also, have you considered trying to go part time after FMLA runs out? That way you can "close the charts" or whatever, and still have baby time.
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As far as the additional time off sounds to me like you should request a personal leave or leave extension and discuss this with your principal. They certainly don't HAVE to grant the extension, and at our place the HR director has to sign off on them.
As soon as I saw you, I knew an adventure was going to happen - Winnie the Pooh
Married 8/22/09
Pregnancy 1- EDD 11/21/10 NMC @ 6 weeks
Pregnancy 2 - Rainbow DS born 1/15/11
Pregnancy 3 - EDD 5/2/14 NMC @ 6 weeks 9/4/13
Pregnancy 4 - EDD 6/11/14 BO @ 9 weeks D&C 11/8/13
AF arrived 12/18/13
BENCH IS BURNED 2/2014
TTA until May/June
WOW!!! I'm pregnant!!! BFP 6/8/14 Rainbow on the way EDD 2/14/15
Winnie the Pooh
With DS I didn't go back to work, so all this (going back after FMLA) is new to me.
As soon as I saw you, I knew an adventure was going to happen - Winnie the Pooh
Married 8/22/09
Pregnancy 1- EDD 11/21/10 NMC @ 6 weeks
Pregnancy 2 - Rainbow DS born 1/15/11
Pregnancy 3 - EDD 5/2/14 NMC @ 6 weeks 9/4/13
Pregnancy 4 - EDD 6/11/14 BO @ 9 weeks D&C 11/8/13
AF arrived 12/18/13
BENCH IS BURNED 2/2014
TTA until May/June
WOW!!! I'm pregnant!!! BFP 6/8/14 Rainbow on the way EDD 2/14/15
Winnie the Pooh
I am with you though- I won't be going back, so soon all this knowledge will leak out and disappear forever.
As soon as I saw you, I knew an adventure was going to happen - Winnie the Pooh
Married 8/22/09
Pregnancy 1- EDD 11/21/10 NMC @ 6 weeks
Pregnancy 2 - Rainbow DS born 1/15/11
Pregnancy 3 - EDD 5/2/14 NMC @ 6 weeks 9/4/13
Pregnancy 4 - EDD 6/11/14 BO @ 9 weeks D&C 11/8/13
AF arrived 12/18/13
BENCH IS BURNED 2/2014
TTA until May/June
WOW!!! I'm pregnant!!! BFP 6/8/14 Rainbow on the way EDD 2/14/15
Winnie the Pooh
I could technically choose not to take it, but then I would be unpaid for the entire time before my short term disability kicks in.
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I could technically choose not to take it, but then I would be unpaid for the entire time before my short term disability kicks in.
**quote fail**
No... She's saying she's required to, as in she doesn't have a choice. This is up to the discretion of the company and their policy.