Well, DH pulled it off. He choose an amazing resort, we enjoyed the grounds and pools and hotel room. Live music in the evening.
The restaurant called DH back - they had a cancellation and were able to seat us. The dinner was a-m-a-z-I-n-g! Chef's menu, sushi, totally exotic and unexpected. Delicious. 6 courses. Exquisite. Memorable.
For a non-romantic, non-planner sort of guy, he did quite well.
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