Hi all! We've been doing a modified sleep training for months but periodically have to go back and reinforce when we slack. Now that DS is standing in his crib we are afraid he's going to fall and hit his head or bust his mouth (both of which he has done). so when he stands up we go in to lay him down which throws off our time intervals that we usually go in. How are/have you handled this until they are standing more steadily? Tia!
Re: Unstable standing babies in cribs at nap time?
Yeah, IDK. I was just throwing it out there since it didn't seem like OP was getting a lot of suggestions related to her CIO (?Just guessing based on the intervals comment) method.
OP, I had to give up on being able to put him down asleep a while ago.
I might have a more laid back attitude about accidents and falls than some others on here. I'm not a hover-er. I just can't be with two. My girls whack their heads on something daily. Often they end up whacking their two heads against each other because for some reason, they always need to be standing in the same exact spot on the floor. If they are in a safe place (no stairs, no sharp corners or surfaces, no overly hard floors like concrete), I don't worry too much about falls and head bumps. I think minor falls like this actually help them learn their limits and how to gauge risk.
We did sleep training awhile ago but they still will get up and stand or crawl around in their crib after I put them down, especially for naps. Sometimes they crawl around in there for a half hour before they finally settle. I do not go in and lie them down again unless they are fussing for long time or if they start suddenly wailing in which case I go in to make sure theres nothing seriously wrong and resettle them without making too much fuss. They've definitely whacked their head multiple times on the rails.
Honestly, I think falling in a crib is probably more scary for them than actually painful. I'm not saying you should ignore it if he falls and is upset, but I wouldn't disrupt the sleep training by going in BEFORE he falls in an attempt to prevent something that may or may not happen. If you go in every time he stands up, he may just learn that to get you into the room, all he has to do is stand up and that could really de-rail any kind of sleep training. He may have a few more falls but eventually he will learn to either hold on to the railing when he stands or he will learn to gauge if he is stable enough to try standing.