DH and I both had showers at work. My coworkers game me a group gift and his provided a lunch, cash, and some individuals gave gifts.
I know the individuals will get thank you'd but for the group gift...DH will get one card because there are more than 35 people and we have no way of knowing who contributed. My team is much smaller though but not all local...is it OK to do a group thank you?
Re: group gift thank you?
We had the same issue when DH's coworkers provided lunch and gave gifts. We didn't know who actually contributed. There were only 8 guys though. He ended up buying them 3 dozen donuts and juice.