Ugh! Why do people think it is ok to call someone out who they think is pregnant? We have a large group of friends who we hang out with almost every weekend and I have had numerous people try to call me out for not drinking. I drank bottled root beer in a koozie all night so no one noticed until I grabbed a bottle of water- can't a girl hydrate? I play it off but I just want to snap - yes I'm 7 weeks pregnant, my family has a history of miscarriages in the first trimester and we are even MORE high risk because we are expecting twins, so sorry I don't brief you on my medical history every time I see you. Does this happen to anyone else? How do you play it off? Maybe it is the hormones but I am just so fed up! =;
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If you wanted people to know you would tell them. I find it extremely rude and juvenile when people call someone out on anything like this.
@mnmarcy my husband and I are pretty big drinkers (or were big drinkers, with twins on the way I doubt I will see a hangover for 10 years) we had two weddings in a row- before out first dr apt. It was so hard- our friends had everyone do a shot fireball instead of a toast with champagne. Yikes! Try slipping a bottle of fre wine to a bartender or waitress, they sell all over the place. https://www.frewines.com/shop or a coke with a lime has worked for me too. Good luck! Let me know how it goes!
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And I just found out some of our friends went through our cooler last night and said something to DH about the root beer I had in there! Good lord people there is no grand prize for calling someone out!
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This is my first pregnancy and we chose not to tell anyone that we were trying. I didn't want people pestering me about it, especially if we ended up having trouble getting pregnant at all, or if (God forbid) a miscarriage happened. My best friend knows and both sets of our parents know, but we are trying to wait until after our 8 week appointment on the 29th before we tell the rest of our close friends and family, and probably the full 12 weeks before we announce it to the world.
We had a wedding a couple of weeks ago and a lot of friends were there. It was the weekend after I even found out I was pregnant, so I carried around a glass of wine most of the night, pretending to sip off of it, and then passed it off to the DH later. Hardest part so far has been that it's now college football season and we do a lot of watch parties and tailgates with friends. I LOVE that bottled root beer idea. One time was a morning game, so I just played it off that it was too early to be drinking. I've also used the excuse that I'm on an antibiotic, so I can't drink, but you can only use that one so many times, lol.
It's kind of obnoxious to have to lie about it, but it's nobody's business until you are ready to tell them
DH and I are planning to break the news around 10 weeks though... A little earlier than we would like but I have 2 bachelorette trips and 2 weddings at the end of the month and would rather people find out before instead of during.
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