Crossing Over

kelle017 · September 2014

Joining team put a baby in me. Aaaah!

I still haven't had me period so as of now we are just seeing what happens.

Last week I was all nope octopus and then I was all yes please! I may regret this decision but for now that's where I am.

#sendgoodvibestomyute

huntjul · September 2014

GL! Just curious, why the sudden change of heart?

kelle017 · September 2014

@huntjul‌ I just felt ready. I know that's not really an good answer though. H has been ready for a few months and I was still frazzled about being the caregiver most of the time.

We had a talk last weekend about how he needed to help more (like if I'm trying to feed Eleanor and eat and do ten other things and your done that helping clean up instead of sitting on the couch would be nice). He's been good since. He's always been good with dd but I needed more.

Dd had been sleeping better (teething nightmare aside) and I just feel ready to see what happens. If it happens quickly I'm good and if it takes awhile that fine too.

hlb622 · September 2014

Sending all the good vibes! Good luck!

huntjul · September 2014

kelle017 said:

@huntjul‌ I just felt ready. I know that's not really an good answer though. H has been ready for a few months and I was still frazzled about being the caregiver most of the time. We had a talk last weekend about how he needed to help more (like if I'm trying to feed Eleanor and eat and do ten other things and your done that helping clean up instead of sitting on the couch would be nice). He's been good since. He's always been good with dd but I needed more. Dd had been sleeping better (teething nightmare aside) and I just feel ready to see what happens. If it happens quickly I'm good and if it takes awhile that fine too.

Feeling ready is a good reason! I'm glad YH has been helping more. Mine needed a reminder a while ago too, and things have been better since.