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lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
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AF showed up today.  Grrrr....So I call RE to let them know the IUI was a no go.  The nurse says, "Oh, that's not supposed to happen! Are you SURE its your period? Your numbers were great!  What a mind F.  I am 99.999% sure that it is.  But darn I just don't want to hope.  I want to just make peace with it and move on you know? And it doesn't exactly inspire confidence that they know next steps.  I wish she just said "OK, no biggie, first one's rarely work and we have a plan".  

Thanks for letting me get that out there! Good news is that i officially get to join you ladies.  
DS: Born November 2011
TTC #2 since April '13
DH 35, Me: 34
DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Wtf? That is a shitty thing to say, is this her first day?  8-| Very unprofessional, you're right she SHOULD HAVE just said "Let's try again" etc. 

    Wtf @ are you sure? 
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    2 IUIs 
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    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
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  • lilmac2929lilmac2929 member
    potatocastillo, right?!? I felt like I had to console her  "Don't worry I am used to this.  Yup, definitely had a period before. Quite familiar with them" Glad she is rooting for me but jeez :/
    DS: Born November 2011
    TTC #2 since April '13
    DH 35, Me: 34
    DX: Unexplained Secondary Infertility, Slight DOR
    Sept 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel) = BFN
    Oct 14 - IUI (Clomid + Ovidrel + Progesterone) = BFN
    Nov 14- Benched due to cysts Looking for New Doc
    Feb - IUI #3 (Letrozole + Ovridrel)
    March/April - IVF #1 - Antagonist Protocol - Follistim+HGH+Low Dose HCG - 11R/9M/5F - 2 8 cell 3dtransfer - BFN on April 23, 2014


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  • designer303designer303 member
    Seriously that's very odd and crappy, it is so not full proof, I should know! Sorry you had to deal with that.

    TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck

    Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man.  Born 12/2/11

    TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended

    Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good.  Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.

    Back with RE as of January 2014...

    5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy :(

    April 2015 IVF#1

    5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!

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  • Bananappeal145Bananappeal145 member
    WTF? Why would she say that?  Sorry :/
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  • lawmom747lawmom747 member
    I'm sorry.  There are just some nurses who don't belong in the trenches with us.
    Me: 35 DH: 35 - Married 10 years
    PCOS and MF
    Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
    IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
    FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
    FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
    IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
    11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
    12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
    Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15

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  • lupineauralupineaura member
    What?? Is she new? I mean, to life and interpersonal interactions? I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Consider complaining to the doc?
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  • FlamingemuFlamingemu member
    How ridiculous. I am sorry you had a dope on the phone. Hopefully, she is not the one who answers again in the future. 

    Kid #1 - 09/03/12
    Kid #2 - maybe???
    Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans 
    Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
    #11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
    1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
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  • HawaiianSunset09HawaiianSunset09 member
    My jaw just hit the floor. I would want to slap her through the phone!! 
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    Beta #1 (13dpiui): 74 Beta #2 (16dpiui): 505 Beta #3 (18dpiui): 1205
    First Ultrasound- 6w2d 110BPM! Our baby has a heartbeat!!
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