We had an 9 week u/s today and there was only one, very strong, baby left. Looks like we lost the 2nd baby right after our scan last week. I am in a huge state of grief and shock and there weren't any "signs". I'm just relying on "everything happens for a reason." THANK YOU ladies for all of you kind, quick and intelligent feedback! I look forward to everyone having happy and healthy babies and I will just have to dote on this single baby twice as much!