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What about single bumps?

AleahFaithAleahFaith member
in November 2014 Moms
I see a lot of things relating to relationships during pregnancy, but as sad as it is, not all of us have the support of the expectant father. Let's talk about ways to deal with being single and pregnant, the looks, the questions, and the extra worry that comes with facing this a little more alone than most.
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Re: What about single bumps?

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  • Sunflowermommy33Sunflowermommy33 member
    @LongIslandMama1114‌ we have a lot in common and we aren't that far from each other...:)
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  • minibean16minibean16 member
    @fyreandblood Oh yes - it gets me everytime! I have it saved to my cell phone so I can easily pull it out when needed!

    You're going to be an amazing and fiercely protective mom to your LO!
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  • TaneighaTaneigha member
    This was really nice ladies, I thank you for this. Been feeling kinda alone the majority of my pregnancy. Me and the baby's father haven't been together/seeing each other since April. It's been kinda rough. I waited sixteen years after my first child to get pregnant with this, my second one, thinking I finally found the right guy to share this experience with only to have him leave and return to his ex that he claimed was just a friend and also the mother of his 1st child. I've felt completely humiliated over the entire experience thus far. Hell, even did my baby registry alone. But on a happy note lo I'd doing well and my teenager Is excited to meet his new little brother in November.
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  • LongIslandMama1114LongIslandMama1114 member
    @Sunflowermommy33‌ You are too sweet! I will definitely be messaging you :x
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  • fyreandbloodfyreandblood member
    Taneigha said:

    This was really nice ladies, I thank you for this. Been feeling kinda alone the majority of my pregnancy. Me and the baby's father haven't been together/seeing each other since April. It's been kinda rough. I waited sixteen years after my first child to get pregnant with this, my second one, thinking I finally found the right guy to share this experience with only to have him leave and return to his ex that he claimed was just a friend and also the mother of his 1st child. I've felt completely humiliated over the entire experience thus far. Hell, even did my baby registry alone. But on a happy note lo I'd doing well and my teenager Is excited to meet his new little brother in November.

    So many hugs. My ex and i were engaged and going to get married in june. I ignored his HORRIBLE abusive tendencies and lies for years because he kept making small changes and he had ~issues~ with black outs. Moved with him across the country, let him ruin my relationship with my parents for awhile, etc. I was convinced he loved me and wanted to have a baby until i found out he was cheating on me, texting other girls, exchanging naked pictures, etc. He even told one girl (i contacted her) that i killed myself.

    The day i saw the naked pics on his phone was the day i packed my crap and left with my cat. My mom's been my rock and i will forever be grateful to her for forgiving my behavior and not hating me.

    He's since spread lies about me, stalked me, and tried to ruin my life. Also kept a bunch of my expensive belongings, but who cares. I'm free of that horrible relationship, my eyes are open, i'm wiser. I can say from experience that you are a badass. Who needs a jerk like that guy, who would choose an ex over you? You are amazing!!! You've already raised an awesome kid. <3 i have so much respect for you and i'm so so sorry for what happened :(
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  • silverwings72silverwings72 member
    @fyreandblood‌ - so proud of you for getting out that unsafe and unhealthy situation!! It is so hard, especially when there is damage to the relationship with our parents. You are an awesome woman and will be an amazing Mama!!!
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  • TaneighaTaneigha member
    Thank you so very much. I am so happy for you and your upcomining nuptials. I am very happy that your family helped you out. Many Many hugs to you and again, thank so much for your kindness. ;;)
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  • LongIslandMama1114LongIslandMama1114 member

    Taneigha said:
    Thank you so very much. I am so happy for you and your upcomining nuptials. I am very happy that your family helped you out. Many Many hugs to you and again, thank so much for your kindness. ;;)
    Just a note...they were supposed to get married in June. They didn't.
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