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ymelena7 · September 2014

I am pregnant and feel not so exited as I would like. I've been through it all this year. I ask my self if it has to do with it all. Lost my mom my marriage and now my husband denies our baby.

jennjilljo · September 2014

First, know that you deserve better than that. Second, Do you have a safe place to be away from him? You need to keep you and your children safe from him and any physical or emotional damage he can cause. Third, speak with your OB about the emotional trouble your having to see what she recommends. Fourth, Stay strong. You may feel like you need him but you don't and you deserve way better than he can give you.

HerHighness · September 2014

ymelena7 said:

I lost my mom in January 11 2014 , when that happen he didn't allowed me to grave my mom as I need it to. He was very possessive, He put me through fire my last pregnancy. Accuse me of cheating called me names and treated me worse then a dog. Now I finally had a door open to leave him, and I find out I am pregnant one more time, since I decided to leave him, now he denies this baby, I find out he was already seeing someone else, and has made me feel like a worthless trash.

You are not worthless trash. He is abusive. The problem is with HIM not with you. Im really sorry this is happening to you. How many ither children do you have?

foxslaw · September 2014

I'm sorry you're going through rough times. Maybe if you give us some more info we can give you better advice/support?

ymelena7 · September 2014

I lost my mom in January 11 2014 , when that happen he didn't allowed me to grave my mom as I need it to. He was very possessive, He put me through fire my last pregnancy. Accuse me of cheating called me names and treated me worse then a dog. Now I finally had a door open to leave him, and I find out I am pregnant one more time, since I decided to leave him, now he denies this baby, I find out he was already seeing someone else, and has made me feel like a worthless trash.

HerHighness · September 2014

Im sorry you are having such a rough year. I know its hard to pull yourself out of feeling crappy but hopefully you can look at this baby as a positive thing. We are here to help. Big hugs.

reneamac313 · September 2014

Everything that @jennhillhoite‌ said.
I'm sorry you are in that situation and I hope things get better.

ordinary1 · September 2014

I am sorry you are having a rough year. I agree with talking to your OB. Do you have a support system in place?

foxslaw · September 2014

That sounds so hard, I'm so sorry. It's the worst when you're going through something tough & don't have your mom. You're not trash! You is kind. You is smart. You is important.

Sahara6971 · September 2014

I'm sorry. Remember, you will always have your kids(s) who will love you unconditionally, no matter what. I lost my mom too and it's not easy. (((HUGS)))

foxslaw · September 2014

@jennhillhoite‌ gives the best advice. Reading her posts makes me feel like I'm wrapped in a cyber hug.

ymelena7 · September 2014

At the moment I do, but he will cancel my insurance next month, since he is so persistent it's not his child.

jennjilljo · September 2014

Thank you. I have many cyber hugs for you @foxslaw‌ and you too OP.

ymelena7 · September 2014

I have 3 children all girls. Since I left him my girls seem so much happier. Now they could breath freely and so can I.

krysmill · September 2014

So sorry you are going through this. I hope things get better.

ymelena7 · September 2014

Thank you all. It is so good to know I could interact and get advice from other mothers through this site.

foxslaw · September 2014

Haha. Just remember that next time someone calls us terrible c-words.

ymelena7 · September 2014

It took lots of courage to leave him, I couldn't get away from him, but god opens a door for it to be possible. I just hope he doesn't do it to other woman.

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