Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m... Our perfect little miracle. Here's how we got here:
My lovely wife:
5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN
Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train
IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN
IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN
September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon
IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013
December: Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.
IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014, 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools. Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...
1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!
Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/
Re: Pregnancy Check-in 9/15
Fall is my favorite season! I love the smells, the leaves, and the not freezing cold yet days.
I'm trucking along. Recently learned that we're having a baby boy so that's exciting
The name we have selected is Graham Jeffrey. Nothing much to report... 15 weeks and still doing fine. Still no weight gain so that's good. Waiting for my bladder problems to cease since I heard rumors that your uterus rises during second tri. Hoping that's true because I hate having to get up to pee every 3-4 hours.
QOTW: I love this time of year for the cooking! I'm working through a half bushel of apples making and freezing apple pie filling so I can make pies for my family. I love making beef stew, chili, macaroni and cheese, roasted chicken... fall food is the best.
CageyMack
37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.
5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered. All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd. 4 fertilized. Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853. Yay!
"Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing
11w3days today.
Nothing major to report. We were referred to our new Dr and the first appt is 1 Oct. So that's pretty exciting. I hope we have another ultrasound done then. It's been a while since we've heard the babies heartbeat, so it would be nice to see what's going on in there.
QOTW: I love the changing colours and the crispness in the air. I'm a hoodie kind of girl, so it's actually my fav season. It's too bad that we do not have maple trees in Alberta. Because there are no red leafs, only yellow.
I'm 35, DW is 33
Together since Dec 2007
Married since 18 June 2011
TTC #1
1st IUI - trigger, 9 July 14 at midnight, IUI - 11 July 14 at noon - BFP!!
10 Dec 14 - Lost our Baby Girl to Hydrops & Cycstic Hygroma due to Turner Syndrome
TTC #2
2nd IUI - hoping to try for our Rainbow in the Spring
We had our glucose test last week and everything was all clear... And I agree with @rkbo it was not as horrible as I thought.... Just like really strong kool aid...
We are already to 2 week appointments and that feels soooo crazy.
We also met with our doula to continue our hypnobirthing classes... We adore her. Between my wife and the doula, I feel like I will be really well cared, and advocated for! We watched several
childbirth videos and they were quite graphic and a little unnerving... I guess that's what we signed up for... And I am working through my feelings on the subject.
Other than that... Here we are in the third trimester! Crazy!
QOTD: I love fall... LOVE! I am not a huge pumpkin spice person... But I love almost everything else... The colors, the weather, the smells, the apples, and so much more!
Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m... Our perfect little miracle. Here's how we got here:
My lovely wife:
5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN
Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train
IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN
IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN
September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon
IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013
December: Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.
IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014, 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools. Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...
1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!
Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/
I am 16w2d I think (?). Went in for my first cervical check last Wednesday and got a surprise external u/s too. Baby looks good and has a strong heart beat and my cervix was measuring at 4cm which MFM said is good. Only small red flag was that my placenta was sitting closer to the cervix then they would like to see so they will be watching that. I am going in for weekly appointments for the next month and have another cervical check as well as my 16w appointment on Wednesday.
As far as the p17 I got a call saying it was approved paid for the first 28day supply which should have been overnighted and have yet to receive it and on top of that got a letter from my insurance saying it wasn't approved. The MFM says if I don't get on p17 soon (which she wanted me on at 14w) she is just going to throw a stitch in to be safe. This makes me nervous because putting an unneeded stitch in increases chances of infection. I just have to trust that as a MFM she knows best. I also need to figure out why I got charged for medication I never received.
QOTW: Loving watching the leaves change color my drive to work is beautiful in the fall. Also love apple picking and baking with said apples. R and I may go apple picking this week (well if I can convince her to).
Me: 30 DP: 30
TTC#1
IUI#1 9/26/13 BFN
IUI#2 10/26/13 BFP beta #1 99 #2 456
2/20/2014 Brynlee Madeline is taken too soon at 19weeks she was perfect
IUI#3 6/10/14 BFP beta #1 276 beta #2 722 20w A/S shows we are having a girl
2 small red flags were low lying placenta, but not by much and she is optomistic that it will continue to move up. The 2nd was a little scary. When looking at baby B's cord and belly, they discovered he has swallowed some of the blood from the SCH. This should resolve itself. We were told not to worry. Other things it could be were infection (which she doesn't think so because both babies would have it) or the scary one... Cystic fibrosis. We will check him at the growth scan in 2 weeks and see if it's resolving. She really feels it's just swallowed blood from the SCH though.
We had a gender reveal party Sat that was so much fun! Sunday we went and picked out cribs and dresser. I basically have first 3 weeks in oct. To get room ready.
On a fun note...I am taking a girls vaca for an overnight this sat at the beach!!! Basically an excuse for margaritas on the beach all day!
Qotw: Only fall weather we've had was Sunday and today. Back up to 90 tomorrow. Nights are getting cooler though. I love football, warm fall days with a cool breeze and nighttime hoodies! Snuggling on the couch with windows open in the house! Evening walks that you don't sweat to death. Our bright colored maple trees in the backyard. Fall break!!!! Wvu football games with the wife and inlaws! We didn't get the channel so we skyped with father in law to watch it sat before our party. Lol.
Little flutters about twice a day. Used to think it was has, but the doc said it's probably the baby! As a FTM I don't know the difference! Had a check up last week and all looked good. Have a follow up blood test and so I next week at 17 weeks to screen for chromosomal defects but doc expects all to be good. And will have have out 20 week anatomy scan soon. Really excited for that!!
Fall isy absolute favorite season!! I love the cooking, the beer (when I was able to drink it) and my wife loves the football. It's the best time of year!!!
Hey, missed last week as was quite busy. Hope everyone doing well?
Started feeling pregnant this week. Not sure at what point I woke up and just felt different - it just kinda crept up on us. It's good in most ways but... now that we've settled into our stride, it's starting to get more real that we are 1week away from the point my baby sister was born. I try not to make such a big thing of it around A but the possibility of history repeating itself really scares me. Especially since this is my first pregnancy and we have no history of my own to go on.
Had appointment with midwife yesterday and heard baby's heartbeat for the first time. Lol, baby was calm all morning but the minute that doppler hit my belly, she was cartwheeling, kicking and generally being as un-cooperative as possible. She doesn't like being disturbed. My bp was 98/62, which is a little low but still healthy. They're watching that closely now on account of my only having one kidney.