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NTTCALR: Positive vibes needed *update in OP*

LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
edited September 2014 in TTC After a Loss
I haven't done a post like this, but my family could really use some good vibes/thoughts/prayers. I found out last night that my grandma who is a 2 time breast cancer survivor now has skin cancer. She will having surgery sometime in the next two weeks. My grandparents practically raised me, my papa was the one who walked me down the aisle on my wedding day.
As everyday passes, I know that we are all getting older, but I guess I'm just having a hard time accepting it. I know my grandma can beat this, but I just hate that she has to have yet another surgery after everything she's already been through. Life can be such a bitch sometimes.

Thank you ladies for letting me get this off my chest.


Update: My gramdma had a successful surgery yesterday with a minimal amount of skin removed. A huge thanks to all of for your kind words!!




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BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

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  • MenrandesMenrandes member
    I'm so sorry *hugs*  Positive vibes for your family heading your way!
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014
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  • jms627jms627 member
    Hugs and T&Ps to you and your grandparents!

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    BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)

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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    I'm sorry.  Hoping for a quick and easy recovery post surgery for her!
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    ((hugs)).  I am hoping that everything goes smoothly and she recovers fast.

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    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

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  • LizBlueLizBlue member
    Sending big ((hugs)). I hope your grandmother is ok.
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    37 years old, MH is 42
    TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor 
    August 2012 through June 2013:  6 IUIs with clomid and trigger shot, all BFNs
    7/2013, Pregnant! Unmedicated--we were on a treatment break
    8/20/13 no heart beat; 8/23/13 d&c
    3/15/14 IVF #1:  Lupron/Follistim/Menopur; ER 3/10 resulting in four transfer grade blastocysts, transferred one pretty blast and froze the remaining three. BFN. 
    Natural FET in May cancelled because the universe hates me my hormones were not cooperating.
    6/24/14 FET #1: transferred two pretty embryos; BFN   
    8/28/14 FET #2: BFP, ended in Chemical pregnancy

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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I'm so sorry sweetie. Sending big ((hugs)) and lots of T&P your way
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • Km380Km380 member
    I'm so sorry. Sending big hugs, I hope your grandmother is ok

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

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  • PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    Thinking of you! Sending your grandma positive vibes! xoxo
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  • RNMoMmy17RNMoMmy17 member
    I'm so sorry this has happened to your grandmother. A lot of times it seems like the worst things happen to the best people, like they haven't already been through enough. So unfair. She's tough enough to beat breast CA twice she can do this! T&Ps for you and your family. 

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  • stinybeanstinybean member
    I'm so sorry to hear this. Many positive vibes coming your way!
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Thinking of your family. Big hugs!!
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    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
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  • littlecookielittlecookie member
    I'm sorry. Thinking of you all. Hope the surgery is successful and your grandma has an easy recovery.
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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    I'm sorry. I'm sending healing thoughts and prayers to your grandmother. I'm sure she will be okay, she sounds like a tough lady.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • MrsKush1014MrsKush1014 member
    Bigs ((hugs)), my husband was diagnosed with melanoma a few years ago and it is so scary. I'm sorry that your grandma is battling this now after all that she has already been through.

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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    Sending healing thoughts to your family
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    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry. Sending lots of positive vibes to your grandma and keeping your family in my thoughts. (((Hugs)))
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    Thank you ladies so much for the well wishes! It really means a lot to me.




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     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

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    So sorry! Sending lots of positive thoughts your way. Thinking of you and your family. ((Hugs))
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