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Going through his things :(

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edited September 2014 in Late Term and Child Loss
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I've been wanting to get a quilt made with all of the outfits our son wore and all of the things with his name monogrammed on them. I've been putting it off, but finally contacted the woman who I was told does a great job. Anyway, today I was determined to get the things together so I can finally have the quilt made, and it was soooo hard going through his things. I still haven't washed some of the things he wore/used, so I'm doing that now, but I made sure to breathe in every spit up stain a couple of times before I did. I can't believe he is gone, this is so unfair :(

Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38

Married 5/2010

January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks

February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus

February 2015- Rainbow baby DD born at 36.3 weeks

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  • lexusolsenlexusolsen member
    I'm so sorry. This all so very unfair. The quilt sounds like such a great way to honor and remember your son. Try to focus on what you will gain, a beautiful quilt. Thinking of you.
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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
    So sorry mama, huge hugs. I'm sure the quilt will be gorgeous! and just think of wrapping yourself in it...

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  • stefugestefuge member
    Lots of ((hugs)). I agree with the other ladies - try and focus on the beautiful quilt you will be getting.
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  • mrslucidmrslucid member
    Hugs, I like at idea.  I may use it for my daughter's clothes.
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  • Mel&John2013Mel&John2013 member
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    I've heard about those quilts, such a beautiful idea. I'm so proud of you for being strong enough to go through his things, that must have been a difficult task.
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  • BgirmaBgirma member
    Sending hugs. The quilt is a beautiful idea but I know how hard it is.
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  • erinelerinel member
    shandorfml2: I love the idea of wrapping myself in it :) 

    Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38

    Married 5/2010

    January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks

    February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus

    February 2015- Rainbow baby DD born at 36.3 weeks

    My chart: http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/42fd32 

     


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  • ikrystalikrystal member
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    ((hugs)).  I also thought of the quilt idea, but thinking of going through Ben and Conner's things is just too painful.  I leave their closet alone.  Your strength is going to help produce something wonderful to remember your little one by :)
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  • OSUWifey09OSUWifey09 member
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    I love the idea of a quilt - maybe I'll do something like that with the clothes I bought Devon but he'll never wear (I don't want to get rid of them, but I don't want them staying in a box forever). You're so strong for being able to do that and wanting to create something beautiful to remember your sweet boy. *hugs*






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