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TMI - Blue balls?

slippintrippn84slippintrippn84 member
edited September 2014 in August 2014 Moms
So, call me a bad wife but DH and I have not had intimate time of any sorts since before LO was born. I'm 5 weeks PP I got my IUD today, so we're bound to break this dry spell soon. I just haven't been in the mood and exhausted from tending to LO. Anybody else holding out?
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  • jaimee2003jaimee2003 member
    I'm with ya. Just have not been in the mood at all. H was super horny the two weeks he was home with me and definitely tried to get some action. I tried to give him a couple of BJ's but I couldn't finish them. I felt bad, but I just was not in the mood! So yeah, pretty sure I left him with blue balls.
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  • noycelanoycela member
    I had my 6 wk PP check-up Tuesday and (even though I was NOT in the mood and super tired) we did the deed last night ... For literally the first time since February I think. So I am definitely not winning a wife of the year award anytime soon!
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  • MC03MC03 member
    I'm six weeks tomorrow and I told DH we could do it. Last time we had sex was early July. But honestly I am not in the mood. Any free time we have when both kids are sleeping I would much rather sleep myself.
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  • alphaxi614alphaxi614 member
    I'm six weeks but of course my freaking period started so no action for us. It's been since May I think. I've given him some BJ's to tide him over. Our anniversary is Monday so I better be able to by then!!
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  • wandsandwinewandsandwine member
    I haven't been in the mood at all. I just had my 6 week pp appt and got the all clear from my ob. We tried and it hurt so bad (I had 2nd degree tears) I made him stop. Sorry for the blue balls babe
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  • ungraceful13ungraceful13 member
    We haven't done anything but I am also not cleared yet.
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  • poofwokpoofwok member
    I've helped SO out a few times since the birth of our son, but I'm only 14 days pp with a 4th degree, so I'm not getting some for a while.
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  • KittyMishaKittyMisha member
    I had a 3rd degree tear and at 3 weeks pp my stitches still bleed every day, so I'm guessing I won't be up to it at my 6 week checkup. Looks like it will be blowies for DH for a while. It's a shame, too, because my 6 week ccheckup is on his birthday.
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  • slippintrippn84slippintrippn84 member
    edited September 2014
    Oh yeah - broke the blue balls spell.
    Didn't hurt nor was there any bleeding.
    The only thing I can say is that the feeling "down there" afterwards was similar to postpartum and I thought about getting some ice...but it went away after laying down for a minute.
    I do know that I definitely need to be working on kegels now.
    DH continued to ruin the moment too by telling me about how much I pooped while pushing out LO.
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  • gahorseygalgahorseygal member
    I would like to but currently sleep outweighs that need. If DH would actually help at night he might get some.
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