She makes me sick (children and pregnancy mentioned)

curve31 · September 2014

I literally feel sick. I just spoke to my cousin, whose brother and also my cousin, about his girlfriend who is KU. Background...they've been together about 2 years and they are about to have their SECOND baby. The first one was planned I guess and is about 1yr old now. She loves him to pieces. The second one was not planned and I think baby 1 was 6 months old when she got pregnant. BC issues or something. Well they weren't happy. I heard they just cried and cried when they found out.

They moved states away (thank God) leaving behind his 7 yr old from a previous relationship. Which is good because the GF didn't like her. I don't even know how you don't like a 7 yr old girl. But she didn't. She was mean to her and put her down a lot. That's when I knew this girl was a bitch. They haven't even told her that she's getting a new bro or sis. And for the life of me, I can't figure out why.

GF is on bed rest now for high blood pressure. She's in her 3rd trimester and they say they just want to get her to 36 weeks and they will take the baby. I can understand how it would be to have a hard pregnancy and the hormones. But she said this on FB a while back. She made a post whining because she could go out drinking. Someone said in a few months you can blah blah. Then she says (and I will never forget it), "yeah, and then I'm snipping, cutting and burning whatever I have to so I never have to deal with this again". Bitch.

Anyways, my cousin says her mom (my aunt) went to visit them and is afraid she isn't bonding with the unborn baby. She wasn't got anything for it. Not even a crib. I'm sure they have stuff from their baby now but he's a boy. I just don't understand. She puts all kinds of pictures and videos of her boy on FB. She deliberately makes she her belly isn't in any shots.

My cousin (the dad) called his mom just the other day crying because GF took her blood pressure and it was extremely high. He wanted to rush her to the hospital but she refused! What is wrong with her? I guess she finally went and it was fine by then.

It just hurts to know that she despises the very thing I (we) would do anything for. I want to go rescue the poor baby from her evil 'mother'.

jencity9 · September 2014

Women like that make me so mad. I would want to offer to take the baby off her hands, lol...

theholmanherd · September 2014

What.a.psycho.bitch. (((HUGS)))

steen9713 · September 2014

It is so sad that people can create life and be this way. How can you not fall in love with a baby non the less your own!! Wishing you the best in a crap situation ** hugs**

meld42 · September 2014

I'm so sorry that you're close to all that awfulness. That's just gross to even read.. I can't believe some people. I'm so sorry.

curve31 · September 2014

I know its awful and I hesitated sharing because I didn't want to spread awfulness but I had to get it off my chest. Its nice to be able to tell people who understand and don't just think I'm being jealous. I guess I am a little but people who are happy with their pregnancies and children don't evoke this in me. I'm just so glad she's many miles away. And I hope she has a change of heart when she gives birth....and that she takes care of herself/baby until then. Because if she doesn't...ugh, I've gotta stop.

Hollowvic · September 2014

Baby mentioned. I have one of those also, my husbands brothers GF got KU a month after we got engaged. She has no job, they live in a one bed room shack. We went to the babies first birthday party in May and the baby was ignored by the mother the whole time, she basically just let her sit in a high chair while the mother hung out. It makes me sick that pp who would be loving parents can't have children but pp like that seem to have no problem getting KU. Sorry you have to deal with pp like that, they suck.

BunnyBerry · September 2014

I'm so sorry you (and the unborn child) have to deal with this. It just doesn't make any sense. Just narcissism from a woman who can't forgive a child for not following her time table?

A friend of mine suffered such severe post-partum depression that she was similar to this woman in a lot of ways. It look years of counseling for her to escape from that darkness, but she is healed now. The compounding factor for her was (multiple) repeat pregnancies without a space, making her feel trapped, weak, afraid, hopeless, etc.

Do you think your cousin might be receptive to encouraging her girlfriend to seek counseling at some point, and see if she might work through some of these issues and see herself as a primary caregiver for her 2nd child?

I hope she starts to behave better,

Champs28 · September 2014

Sounds like this woman is just a bad person and disregarded her BF (and baby daddy's) first child as well as the unborn child. Some people are just rotten (and trash). I'm sorry you have to deal with this

curve31 · September 2014

Today she posted on FB that she is looking into a beach vacation next summer so she has something to look forward to after 2 long hot summers of being pregnant. I think I'd be looking forward to having a baby girl in a few weeks. Geez.

I truly think she does need counseling. I'm not close enough to them to know if she is or has had treatment. I do know she has her own mommy issues which are a huge part of this I'm sure. Next time I talk to my aunt I will be sure and bring it up.

Thank you everyone for the support

theholmanherd · September 2014

curve31 said:

Today she posted on FB that she is looking into a beach vacation next summer so she has something to look forward to after 2 long hot summers of being pregnant. I think I'd be looking forward to having a baby girl in a few weeks. Geez.

I truly think she does need counseling. I'm not close enough to them to know if she is or has had treatment. I do know she has her own mommy issues which are a huge part of this I'm sure. Next time I talk to my aunt I will be sure and bring it up.

Thank you everyone for the support

WTAF? She is BSC. I'm sorry you have to deal with her

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