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Ksample89 · September 2014

Ok so SO and I have not been seeing eye to eye about boobs. I EBF and have HATED him touching my boobs since I had DD. It is an immediate turn off. Am I the only one that feels this way? Or am I the only crazy one?

J&NL · September 2014

You're not alone. I get irrationally offended by it sometimes.

kimberpoo · September 2014

nope. you are not alone. they are just so much more sensitive than they used to be! plus I don't want to leak everywhere. andplusalso, after I pump and deflate these babes, I look like something out of national geographic.

kimberpoo · September 2014

I will say that if we are in the hot tub he can touch and it doesn't bug me as much. maybe the hot water or the non-leaking? idk.

lokimau · September 2014

After having DD suck and grab then all day, it definitely does not spark sexy time for DH to grab them.

kmos816 · September 2014

Same- they are the baby's for now!

babym6705 · September 2014

Mine are also off limits for DH, but mostly because I leak still and my nipples have this weird numb feeling, does anyone else have this?

pbandjmom · September 2014

Mostly off limits, but I did photograph them for posterity because they look marvelous.

juniper75 · September 2014

J&NL said:
You're not alone. I get irrationally offended by it sometimes.

This is me too! DH gets quite cranky about it

UnofficiallyLO · September 2014

I was never into boob stuff so I'm staying on that team, he has no problem with it, mine are small anyway >:D<

AmberLiz99 · September 2014

I stopped BFing and pumping at 3 months, and I still feel weird about my boobs sometimes. I don't know what it is, I just don't like them touched anymore. It's all mental for me at this point since I've been dried up for a while

nicole mackenzie · September 2014

I've never been into boobs ... I used to let DH play with them anyways. I never had much sensation in them.

Now that LO is here it turns me off

Also don't grab my but etc while I'm nursing...

chichi589 · September 2014

Hate it now. It feels wrong? Idk boobs are for nursing now he hates it but it is what it is.

Ksample89 · September 2014

Yeah I've tried to explain this to him but apparently I'm being selfish? He gets 0 enjoyment out of my now Ds that were once Bs and he is not happy. Ohhhh wellllll! However he keeps tryin and it is driving me crazy. Men don't know what the word no is.

JessieAlbin · September 2014

Add this one to my "silver lining that breastfeeding didn't work for us" list. My boobs didn't change a whole lot even gaining all the pregnancy weight, so while they never got huge, they still look and feel like my boobs, and they don't hurt anymore. A selfish go-to reason to feel better when I get bummed that nursing didn't work, but it does make me feel better!

BiggerinRealLife · September 2014

Nope. I want to like it, but the breast hurts if it's not empty, and if I just pumped/fed to empty it, the nipple hurts. I can't win.

bmayora · September 2014

He knows better than to even look in that vicinity now. Oh, and once, I squirted myself in the eye with milk after we were done with sexy time. Total turnoff.

porterlove525 · September 2014

Between the EBF and so much pumping now that I'm back to work, the numbness of the tatas and also my c-section scar, loss of all muscle tone and 15lbs I still have yet to lose, I'm in the don't touch anything kind of way

porterlove525 · September 2014

bmayora said:
He knows better than to even look in that vicinity now. Oh, and once, I squirted myself in the eye with milk after we were done with sexy time. Total turnoff.

I would die.

thejewelster · September 2014

I'm more nervous that dh will get a mouthful and that makes me laugh out loud everytime he goes near them! Not a good mood booster if ya know what I mean?!

bmayora · September 2014

I did.

SoulTermination · September 2014

DH has been too close several times when I pop a boob out to feed LO and gotten sprayed by my letdown. Now he puts his hands up as a shield or gets the hell out of the way any time they're not covered, lmao.

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