I just found out I am pregnant with baby #2 so we have plenty of time, but I would like your opinions.
My Dad passed away in July and I really want to honor him with the mn, however, he has a very tough name. His name was Herbert Virgil Lastname (short Scottish/Irish Mc name) III, nm Mick.
We decided if #2 is a girl her mn will be Virginia. If #2 is a boy though we aren't sure how to incorporate his name. My DH doesn't love the flow of any of the first names we like with Herbert, Virgil and Mick. Is it weird to put my maiden name in the mn spot? I do love my maiden name and it seems to flow much better than the other names.
Some of the boy names we like so far are:
Joshua
Lucas (our pick for #1 if we had a boy, not sure I love the popularity now)
Ryan (we have a short R last name so I am unsure if Ryan R*** works)
Emerson
Thoughts?
ETA: DD is Madelyn
Re: Help mn honoring my Dad
If DH doesn't like any thing else, I think your maiden name would be a great option - it honors your father but also the family you came from. We have two middle names picked out if this baby is a boy and I'm thinking about suggesting adding my maiden name to the first and middle name we've chosen for a girl.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
Ok since we have plenty of time I am going to still try and work with Herbert or Virgil but at least I know it will OK to use my maiden name as well.
Thank you for all your kind words
I do miss him and I excited for LO to honor him.