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youngcollegemomyoungcollegemom member
in December 2014 Moms
I hate this funk I am in. I am physically & emotionally exhausted. I am super depressed and I feel so alone.
My head hurts all the time and I am just tired. Just ready for this crappy feeling to go away, I don't really have to time to feel this way. I have work and school.
& I wish I had someone to make me something to eat right now. :'(
Cry baby Thursday!!!
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  • nopegoatnopegoat member
    Hugs lady!! You have a ton on your plate right now. I hope it gets easier and better soon.
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  • youngcollegemomyoungcollegemom member
    Thanks. Me too. The boyfriend will be moving closer soon. But he won't be home. And still don't know when that will yet. He still have a while to go before he is fully recovered.
    & everytime we talk, its either he is into talking or he isn't, so I get so discouraged.
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  • youngcollegemomyoungcollegemom member
    Thank so much @shinycat . I loved that. :)
    Made my day.
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  • DoctorWorm222DoctorWorm222 member
    youngcollegemom said:
    Thanks. Me too. The boyfriend will be moving closer soon. But he won't be home. And still don't know when that will yet. He still have a while to go before he is fully recovered. & everytime we talk, its either he is into talking or he isn't, so I get so discouraged.
    Maybe I'm mixing up my stories (quite possible -- my brain isn't quite what it once was!), but didn't you say that you weren't going to have much contact with him until the birth? Are you communicating regularly now? Have things improved somewhat?
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  • JaymeeLHJaymeeLH member
    Hugs lady! So sorry you're going through this funk, but we're always here for you when you need a pick me up!

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  • youngcollegemomyoungcollegemom member
    @DoctorWorm222‌ no you are right. But I went up a few weeks ago for his birthday and he told me he was sorry for the way he acted when I was there last. He was the guy that I loved all over again. And I have to remember that things are mixed up in his mind too. He is moving to a place that work that and with his physical therapy as well. He has his good and bad days. And I feel like I have just be supportive.
    It is extremely hard watching someone you love go through this stuff. After 4 months i finally was able to see him stand, with help, while i was there last. From the first time i met his parents at the ICU when they didnt know if he was going to live to seeing him stand, has been a journey and i don't think I could just leave him. Yeah the way he acted was shitty.... But i cant just leave him.
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  • youngcollegemomyoungcollegemom member
    As crazy as that all sounds.
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  • abenson3abenson3 member
    Creepy internet hugs.  You are a strong lady for getting out of bed in the morning, at least in my book!!  You are having to deal with so much more than the aches, pains, and hormones of pregnancy.  I think you are entitled to a daily rant/vent!!
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  • SerunatuSerunatu member

    You're not alone! I spend a good amount of time wishing someone would come over and make me dinner every night, until I just decide to make spaghetti.. again.

    And then I usually realize, I like my cooking more than I like others anyways because I'm picky in my cooking style.

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  • mrsrrobersonmrsrroberson member
    I was saying the same exact words to H the other night! I completely relate! Hope you feel better soon!
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  • JRod13JRod13 member
    edited September 2014
    I'm sorry you're dealing with all that. Not to pry, and if you don't want to share I understand, but what happened to him? Is he going to be ok?
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  • youngcollegemomyoungcollegemom member
    I wish I could but I live too far out of town.
    I had chicken nuggets for lunch & for waffle for dinner before work. Feeling a little better.

    @jrob13 he threw up in his sleep and clobbed his air ways, the cause is honestly unknown. He lost oxygen to his brain, he went into a coma. When he woke up he couldn't breath on his on and had him on a vent for a few months & he couldnt move his arms and legs. Been a super long journey.
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  • JRod13JRod13 member
    Wow. That is crazy. Thank goodness he is getting better! I can't imagine what you're going through. Positive vibes your way hun.
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  • ninee88ninee88 member
    Sorry you are going through so much. Hang in there and get help where you can. Creepy internet hugs!
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