Our little one turned 2 in June. All summer he's been "pretending" to use the potty. I give him a piece of toilet paper and he "wipes his bum", puts it in the potty and flushes. He'll sit on the toilet with the seat down and his pants off but if I try to take his pants off to get him to sit on it he freaks out.He's been showing signs of being uncomfortable when he soils his diaper lately. Any advise on getting him to actually SIT on the potty??
Re: using the potty
But leave it at that. Don't pressure him to do it, because that can backfire. If he freaks out when you try to take his pants off, then don't take his pants off. Don't turn this into a battle of wills, because that will just continue and make the whole process difficult. When he wants to sit on the potty, he'll do it. If he feels like it's his choice, and something he wants to do, it will be the easiest thing in the world.
After that we started taking him to sit on the potty every 2 hours and eventually he went. We also rewarded with candy for a few weeks but we don't anymore. He's not 100% yet. We go through about 3-4 diapers every 24 hours.