TTC After a Loss

AW: 8 am, too early for alcohol? Gif story

gscovillegscoville member
edited September 2014 in TTC After a Loss
Feeling rather sorry for myself today and thinking it can't be too early for a drink, can it?
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So today is my birthday, and I'm feeling all of my 41 years - yikes!
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Now most years I don't normally fret too much about my birthday, but circumstances this year are just conspiring to make it drink-worthy.
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My hubby is away at school, he left Aug. 10 (the day before our second anniversary) and won't be back for another couple weeks - after his birthday, in fact.  So we're missing out on all of our 'big days' all in one shot.  I've been cooking for one for over three weeks now - meaning, eating all the crap.  A bag of chips, a chocolate bar, and a glass bottle of wine are so much easier!
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So I've gained like five pounds since he left.
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To top everything off, I'm a public teacher in BC, which means I haven't been paid since June - we've been locked out/on strike since the end of May.  So instead of working with my students, which I love, I'll be sitting on a picket line.  Wooooo.  If I hear one more person utter the words 'greedy teacher' I'll not be responsible for what happens to them. 
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Our little theatre offers free admission on your birthday, which is awesome, and usually the movie available on my birthday is drek, but this week is actually a movie I want to see - problem is, I'm a bit of a hermit with only a couple of close friends in my town, and both of them are busy tonight..  So do I venture out by myself to the movies and be that pathetic single in the theatre on her birthday, or stay at home and...well, drink all the wine?
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Ok, so I've put two bottles in the fridge to chill...was there ever really a decision to be made here? ;)
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And it's Tuesday, there will just have to be some interesting posts over on TTGP to entertain me!

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Thanks for letting me AW, it's been a while since I had something to post a gif story about.  How about some cake and wine for all! :D

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Or cake shaped like wine

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Re: AW: 8 am, too early for alcohol? Gif story

  • Oh honey, I wish I was near by to go to the movies and drink wine with you!  I'm so sorry that today is such a crappy day and I hope that something good happens to put you in a better mood.  Know that I'm thinking of you and wishing you a very Happy Birthday!  Sending you much love and (((((HUGS)))))
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  • All of this and you haven't been paid since JUNE? That is not okay. 

    I would definitely go to the free movie solo. Going to a movie alone is on my bucket list, along with traveling internationally alone. I think it's important and empowering to do things alone and have an enjoyable time in your own skin. 

    ((Hugs)) and happy birthday, fabulous lady.
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  • Happy birthday! I hope you enjoy your wine. I like @mlal78 suggestion for the travel mug and movie!

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  • Agree with PP regarding sneaking wine in to the theater. When I was young and (less) reckless, I used to buy pocket shots (shots of alcohol in flexible plastic containers..like teeny IV bags), shove a bunch in my purse, go to the movie, buy a coke, and dump them in :D

    Older me just empties my biggest purse, pours wine into an empty plastic bottle, puts that in my purse, and takes it to the theater to enjoy alongside some raisinettes (which would also be from my purse cause i'm cheap). I wish I lived near you so I could join in on this!

    Oh, and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!

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    BFP#1  5.17.14, EDD 1.26.15, MMC (measuring 6w3d at 8w3d), D&C 6.26.14
    BFP#2  9.19.14, EDD 5.29.15, AF on 9.23.14 CP
    BFP#3  12.17.14, EDD 8.25.15, AF on 12.21.14 CP#2

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  • Happy Birthday!! Your anniversary is a day after ours! So Happy Anniversary too :D Bring the wine to the theater ;)


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  • Happy Birthday!  I hope you manage to have a good day.
    Drink all the wine and go to the movies.  Maybe eat a massive amount of popcorn like I suddenly want to do after seeing the popcorn gif! 
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  • Happy Birthday!  And jumping on PP advice go and sneak in all the wine you can!   was a big fan of that move in college.  We would bring in mini-bottles in our coats, order the smallest drink,  go to the bathroom and dump the drink, add the wine to the cup, and no one suspects a thing.  Our theaters would not let you bring in a travel mug.
  • HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Wish I could share a bottle or three of wine with you! I'm sorry you are having a rough time. I hope you are able to enjoy your day somehow. Alcohol and chocolate are sometimes a comfort for me - truth be told. Sending you lots of (((hugs))).

    I also vote for wine to go!
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  • Happy birthday! 
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    I definitely agree, take the wine to the movie

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    TTC journey started 12/2012

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    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    edited September 2014
    First, happy birthday!!!! And second, @stinybean just went to a movie stag and she said it was amazing. I second what mlal78 said. Find a travel mug, and take your wine with you! Or....carry a big purse :D
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  • Happy Birthday!  I'm sorry things are such a mess lately.  I'm with @mlal78 and say take a roadie to the theatre and watch a movie... It would be good to get out.

    Me 35 / DH 36
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    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
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  • uromysuromys member
    edited September 2014

    suits you need a drink

    karen box wine

    I've got on just for you. September is Birthday month in our house. We've got one every week and our wine is on tap!

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    So take out that blatter bag and put it your purse. The movie is waiting. You did decide to go to the movies? Right? Its free! Everyone loves free. So grab a box of your favorite candies and get to strutting.

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    After all its your day! I hope you enjoy it!

    Happy Birthday!!!

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  • Happy Birthday, sorry you aren't spending it in the best of ways.
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  • First, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!  Second, {{hugs}}, and I wish we could all be there to have wine and wine-shaped cake together.

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    BFP: 3/9/2014  EDD: 11/11/2014  MMC: 4/10/2014  D&C: 4/11/2014
  • Happy birthday hun! I am so sorry that you are feeling down.  

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    Hoping for good news!

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