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March 2015 Moms
katenkenny24
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Introduction then Attitudes and Rudeness ?
katenkenny24
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Hi my name is Kate, I'm 29, married in May of this year and got pregnant on our honeymoon. We had been TTC for 5+ years and now we finally have our miracle baby. I'm 15 weeks 2 days today. There is my introduction.
Now I have something to say....
EVERY TIME I come in here (which has only been a handful of times) it's one rude attack after another. You know it's sad that these groups are all meant to support others and it seems to be the total opposite. It seems like people wait for a person to say something you don't agree with so you can rip them to shreds . I'm mean seriously , every time I do glance at a couple topics it's always the same people talking the same shit and it's absolutely repulsive!
If your so sick of the same questions beings asked then skip over it and move on instead of commenting and being a dick about things ! Seriously how hard is it to take the high road and move forward.
A lot of people in here are first time mothers and a lot of people in here do not spend day and night going though post reading every single topic or response. Many of us that do come to this group look for guidance , not to be disrespected and talked down upon.
I mean is your life really that miserable that you have to spread constant negativity ?
This is my first and more then likely it will be my last post ever in this group. No one wants to be a part of a group that is so critical, like we are back in high school dealing with the "mean girls" that just can't help but bully someone just because.
I really think some of u need to reflect on your attitudes.
Ok, so a new mom comes into the group and asks one thing that's already been talked about... So what ?! Move on ! If it's such a bother then don't take the time to make a rude remark just move past it !
Now I have something to say....
EVERY TIME I come in here (which has only been a handful of times) it's one rude attack after another. You know it's sad that these groups are all meant to support others and it seems to be the total opposite. It seems like people wait for a person to say something you don't agree with so you can rip them to shreds . I'm mean seriously , every time I do glance at a couple topics it's always the same people talking the same shit and it's absolutely repulsive!
If your so sick of the same questions beings asked then skip over it and move on instead of commenting and being a dick about things ! Seriously how hard is it to take the high road and move forward.
A lot of people in here are first time mothers and a lot of people in here do not spend day and night going though post reading every single topic or response. Many of us that do come to this group look for guidance , not to be disrespected and talked down upon.
I mean is your life really that miserable that you have to spread constant negativity ?
This is my first and more then likely it will be my last post ever in this group. No one wants to be a part of a group that is so critical, like we are back in high school dealing with the "mean girls" that just can't help but bully someone just because.
I really think some of u need to reflect on your attitudes.
Ok, so a new mom comes into the group and asks one thing that's already been talked about... So what ?! Move on ! If it's such a bother then don't take the time to make a rude remark just move past it !
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Re: Introduction then Attitudes and Rudeness ?
Is this you're way of saying you want to braid hair and make friendship bracelets... Because I have to say, you are going about this the wrong way.
Perhaps next time not waste our time with your childlike banter. Take some your own advice and step away if it's this app isn't what you expected. We aren't going to conform to your liking because you don't like the way we are upfront.
Blowing air up your asshole is pretty uncomfortable for both us, I mean if you like that kind of thing, that's fine, but I not interested in that sort of kink.
Anywho, doesn't matter since this looks like this is a "hi and goodbye" situation.
No one will miss you.
I am a first time mom, and I am not a complete bitch when it comes to introductions. I also took the time to get to know some of these ladies, and have had nothing but a positive experience, even when there were disagreements.
You get what you put in. Obviously, you choose the road traveled mostly by trolls, but perhaps you will change your tune? I won't hold my breath, but don't expect a friendly regard to your existence if you continue to berate people in this forum.
Gif fail
Yawn. Bored.
So, that was fun. I like the part where she deviated from the usual by introing as part of her rant telling us off/scolding us. It makes her less of a first time poster than the other winners who do these types of posts...oh, wait, nope, same thing.
Cool story, OP. Now, byeeeeee, thanks for wasting your breath??