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What's happening for the weekend!

I think we'll replace GTKY Friday with what's happening for the weekend for a while. Everybody spill it! What is going on? Anything fun?

Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

C began IUI's
7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

 

Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

 

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Re: What's happening for the weekend!

  • Well, first of all, Happy Birthday @firstcomeslove2013! :)

    Now, as for my weekend...here are the main objectives:

    1. CLEAN - the house needs it badly - I am not excited about it...

    2. My wife wants to go to this Mom's of Multiples thrift sale that is being hosted a town over from us tomorrow. You don't have to be a mom of multiples to go to the sale, that is just the group managing the sale. She read really good reviews online about previous sales, so now she wants to go and perhaps get a few Christmas presents to put away for Will.

    3. Our usual grocery store outing will probably happen on Sunday, along with some meal prep for the week.

    4. Perhaps we will rent a movie and have some family snuggle time. I would like that!

    That's what we've got going on at the moment. Happy Friday everyone! :)

    Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012

    5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN

    Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer!      *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581   *********William George born June 4, 2014*********
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  • Happy Birthday @firstcomeslove! This is wedding weekend, right? Hope it goes better than expected!

    Not much planned, but we may do early dinner out this evening. I'm supposed to get together with a friend tomorrow for a drink or pedi or something sans kiddos. Woohoo!

    Nothing else planned - just the typical grocery, cleaning, cooking routine!
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  • redrockmamaredrockmama member
    edited September 2014
    Happy birthday @firstcomeslove2013‌

    I am picking J up from the airport tonight. I'm excited, not only did I miss her, but after three sleepless nights, I'm ready for a nap
    Tomorrow J's organization is having their annual fundraising walk and it's at the park right by our house, so Thijs and I are going to participate. J will be working all day for the event.

    And then we have to figure out our childcare dilemma, which will take up the rest of the weekend I'm sure.


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  • Happy birthday @firstcomesloves2013!

    @redrockmama - did you ever post the story of what's up with the childcare sitch?  I think I missed it.  Sorry you're having to deal with that stress, especially while J was traveling.  :(

    Tonight S has a team banquet and Gabe and I are actually going to go!  Exciting!  We'll see how he does.  It's in one of the sports venues on campus so at least if he's being a pill I can take him out and run around.

    Tomorrow morning I'm doing a walk to support research on Ovarian Cancer.  It happens to be a work-related thing, but the cause is near and dear to me since my Mom is a 2x survivor.  Then tomorrow afternoon S and I are going the football game.  ALONE!!  I'm so excited. I feel like we have something going on in the evening too, but I can remember what it might be.

    Sunday will be full of trying to keep Gabe busy and active, while trying to take care of (and spend time with) the dog and cat as well.  I'm sure S will have to work some.  And the laundry could sure use some attention.  We also have a PILE of vegetables to do something with from our CSA, so I'm sure I'll be doing some cooking and freezing.  Wish @crazyaunt84 was around to give me canning lessons!

     

    Married to my amazing wife 6/12/10 
    TTC since 6/11
    Unmedicated IUI #1 - 6/28/11 - BFN
    Unmedicated IUI #2 - 7/25/11 - BFN
    Robotic Myomectomy (Fibroid Surgery) - 11/15/11
    Unmedicated IUI #3 - 4/24/12 - BFN 
    Progesterone Supported Leuteal Phase IUI #4 - 6/21/12 - BFP!!
    Baby Boy G Born 3/24/13

    On to #2, are we crazy?
    IUI #1 - 11/28/14 - BFP!  Beta #1 (11DPO) 34, Beta #2 (13DPO) 101, Beta #3 (20DPO) 3043
    Ultrasound at 6w4d shows a single, fluttering heartbeat.  Say hello to Sticky Ricki!

     

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  • mallory4284mallory4284 member
    edited September 2014
    I would love to have a date night tonight but I can never plan anything because I never know what time J will get home. Plus we should probably save the money and stay in. Especially because tomorrow we plan on going to the football game at the local college we live by! I love football season so I'm excited for that! Sunday we'll probably do stuff around the house. The yard needs mowed for sure and I'm sure the house could use a slight cleaning!

    Eta... Forgot to say happy birthday @firstcomeslove2013‌
  • bfonz619bfonz619 member
    edited September 2014
    Happy Birthday @firstcomeslove2013

    DW and I have our nephews for the weekend - 4 and 7 years old - which we are very excited about!  The won't get to our place until 7:30 pm so we will more than likely just relax and watch a movie this evening.  They love being outdoors so, we have a trail hike packed full of exploring and a pool party planned for tomorrow.  Then, dog beach and fish on Sunday!

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    Married: 10/4/2013
    TTC Since September 2014
    BFP 11/30/2014 ~ EDD 8/13/2015 ~ CP 12/5/2014
    BFP #2 12/30/2014 ~ EDD 9/13/2015 Stick bean stick!
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    edited September 2014

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    "S15 January Siggy Challange - Happy Dance"
    Jimmy Fallon Dance

    Married: 10/4/2013
    TTC Since September 2014
    BFP 11/30/2014 ~ EDD 8/13/2015 ~ CP 12/5/2014
    BFP #2 12/30/2014 ~ EDD 9/13/2015 Stick bean stick!
  • Happy birthday @firstcomeslove2013!!

    Tonight we go sign the lease on our new place, and do our walk through. EV and I will be taking notes so we know exactly where we want to put things and pack accordingly.

    Tomorrow I will hopefully show our rental property to someone who will move in immediately. I am getting so stressed about it.

    Sunday is up in the air, but we'll likely stay local since we've been driving all over every weekend for the past two months.  Our landlord may end up showing this property on Sunday for an hour or so, we're trying to get tenants in so we can move in the middle of the month instead of the end of the month. We'll see. Packing, cleaning, homework, preparing for an interview on Monday.... That about rounds it out.





  • What is a "week end"? They keep creeping up on us here in newborn land...where all the days just run together!

    No plans really this weekend. I did walk around Greenlake the other day and it went great, until later when I got a little sore...ahem...seems the stitches weren't quite up to the 3 mile walk just yet. And I really want to go to "after baby yoga' but it is for 3 weeks pp + so next weekend I can go.

    The big thing is that S isn't gaining weight, despite my feeding (seemingly) a lot! I went to a lactation support group today and indeed, she's only getting about 1 oz during a good 35 minute + feed! So I'm full on increasing supply and doing some pumping in between (and during) her feeds. So big focus on that. Otherwise, it seems we get a lot more visitors on the weekends (though we've not yet had a day without at least one!) so I imagine we'll see some of my sisters/mom. And perhaps a *shorter* walk or two! I think this is J's last weekend not working, but again she doesn't work 8-5 even when she does work, so I think it'll be ok when she does work again.

    Not much else happening for this milkin' mamaz.
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • @2MamazInSeattle‌ - thinking about you! Pumping and nursing full time is a tough job. Trust your body and your instincts. Lots of support to you!
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  • Wow! Thanks all for the birthday wishes. It has been a long, long day. I'm sure I'll have more to fill you in on after the weekend.

    As most of you know this weekend is my brother's wedding. We are currently in Minneapolis. The rehearsal is tomorrow, the wedding is Sunday. I already exhausted!!!

    Sounds like most of you have a pretty great weekend planned!!! Have some fun for me! :-)

    Queer coupled and having a BABY with the love of my life! Love my life and wouldn't have it any other way!
    First IUI 1/22/2013 BFN: 2/7/2013, Second IUI 2/21/2013 BFN: 3/9/2013, Third IUI 4/23/2013 BFN: 5/8/2013, Fourth IUI 5/24/2013 BFN: 6/7/2013, Fifth IUI 6/24/2013 BFN: 7/8/2013

    C began IUI's
    7/23/2013 C's first IUI BFN, 8/21/2013 C's second IUI BFN , Took a break in September and October, 11/05/2013 C's 3rd IUI (TWW...we meet again...) BFN, Took off the month to switch to an RE. 01/01/2014 C's 4th IUI...BFP!!!!!!!! Beta #1- 17, Beta #2- 34, Beta #3-140....  6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014

    03/21/2014 IUI #10...BFP!!! Beta #1- 48, Beta #2- 416, Beta #3- 1018. GROW BABY GROW!!!

    1st Ultrasound 4/22/2014 Baby Squints is PERFECT! Measuring at 6w2d with a heartbeat of 129. EDD: 12/12/14.

    Ultrasound at 18 weeks on 7/14/2014. Baby is healthy and growing just as she should!

     

    Check out my blog at: http://journeytoparenthoodandmakingmilk.blogspot.com/

     

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  • @TwoMomsInTX‌ - I'm so sorry about your dog. Big hugs to you.
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  • @TwoMomsInTX‌ - I'm so sorry.

    Me: 30  DW (aka C): 29

    Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12

    ***CP mentioned***

    We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm.  8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy.  We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET.  I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013. 

    11/14/14 -  Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good. 

    12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2

    12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)

    1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2

     ****All Welcome!****

    We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.

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  • @twomomsintx I'm so sorry for your loss. What a terrible thing to have to do, but how wonderful to have shared you life with your lab for so long.

    @2MamazInSeattle‌ I tandem breastfed at an LC clinic too and they weighed the boys after 30 min. I was so sad that they each only got an ounce. Full time pumping and part time breast feeding is my life now. Our LC said in about a month they will be more efficient a emptying my breasts.

    Happy bday @firstcomeslove2013‌!!!

    A & K, married 7/1/13.

    After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.

     

     

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