I'm guessing I'm not the only one who's LO is upset by dairy. I've been down this road before, but its really my least favorite part about nursing. I had hoped to skip this with number three, but no such luck.
It's really the cheese that I miss when doing this. There are no good substitutes. The chocolate withdrawal isn't fun either, but on a daily basis it's the cheese.
I thought maybe we could share dairy free recipes and what we're substituting. Last time I only had one child so I made some things from scratch like pudding and alfredo sauce to be able to enjoy them without dairy. I don't see me having that kind of time this time around.
Re: dairy free support
For me the easiest thing to do was not try to substitute foods (ie- trying cheese substitutes just made me miss the real thing. I LOVE cheese! Chocolate too). I ate avocado on sandwiches and as a chili topping because it gave me that creamy satisfaction.
Here is a ranch dressing recipe I loved and still prefer over regular ranch:
https://www.adventuresofaglutenfreemom.com/2011/08/ranch-dressing-dairy-free-egg-free-corn-free-nut-free-and-soy-free/
I also love this avocado pasta sauce:
https://www.blissfulbblog.com/blog/2012/2/16/blissful-eats-with-tina-jeffers-creamy-avocado-pasta.html