This will be baby number 3! We have three rooms upstairs and one down! My son has just decided he will not go down stairs... It's scary! So now I have no idea what to do??
Baby share with same gender?
My 7 yr old son and 3 yr old daughter share?
If baby shares my kids will not get much sleep!
My son sleeps with the light on my daughter likes the light off?
What is everyone else doing??
Re: Rooms
No I do not sleep with a baby in my room... I find I am way more paranoid and our room is so small I don't think a crib would fix
In your case I would make a really big deal about fixing up the room downstairs for DS. Telling everyone to talk to him about how cool his new room will be. And maybe even say that if he stays upstairs he has to share with DD and sleep with only a small night light but downstairs since it's his own totally awesome room he can have the light on. If that fails the older two share until the baby sleeps thru the night more.
Is the room downstairs pretty big? I would move the master down there and just have all three kids upstairs. For some odd reason, I don't like the idea of a kid alone on the main floor at night and the master is upstairs. But, that is me being paranoid and I can understand why your son would think being on the first floor is scary.
If you don't want to move downstairs, then I guess I would make baby share with same gender. I prefer to keep the newborn in our room and just transition once s/he sleeps through the night (that was around 4mos with DS, I realize that may not happen again).
Yah we tried the supper excited thing... You can paint your room whatever colour you want you can decorate it however! We can make your room amazing whatever you want to do to it! Still no it's scary!! Maybe I will mention the nightlight thing maybe that will sway him! I don't want to force him that wouldn't go over well! But I think it would be so much easier that way!!
The nursery and guest room will be the same. Luckily it is large enough to have the Queen size bed, a dresser, glider, and crib without being cramped. DD still gets her own room. When we do have family come stay the baby will just sleep with us for the time to let the guests have it be somewhat their own 'space'. We have two sets of parents (My dad/step mom, and ILs) who are both out of the area so we need to have a guest room.
DD 12.2010