Why can't I just accept the bfn

morganlmw · September 2014

A little background. ..
With my first pregnancy I swear I started getting sick the moment of conception. We werent trying and I took several hpt all negative. I went to urgent care..they did a urine test..negative...weeks of test and medication for ulcers..at 2 am ER trip and then I got a positive urine test at the hospital I was 10 weeks!! I was on bc and it wasn't uncommon for me not to get a period.
So not struggling to convince a second child, every bfn leaves me with false hope. And each time AF comes I continue to be heart broken.
I think it's time to take a break from trying. ..anyone else struggle to accept the bfn each month?

dmsmth · September 2014

((hugs)) I have not been ttc very long for #3, but with #1 after my m/c and before my sticky bfp, I had such a hard time seeing a bfn. To the point I didn't want to take a test even though I had a feeling I was pregnant. Just on the off chance my gut was wrong. It sucked

ellebelle2384 · September 2014

I don't think anyone here wants or easily accepts a BFN.

lilmac2929 · September 2014

I don't blame you for having a hard time accepting a BFN after your history. The darn emotional roller coaster of the 2ww is so incredibly hard. I know this is waayyyy easier said than done, but I try not to test. Ever. I hate it because I see that BFN and then get sad..Then hopeful...then crushed when AF shows. Do you get your period regularly now?

morganlmw · September 2014

I took metformin for 2 months...since then normal periods

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