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3 losses, pregnant again. wish me luck!

tachycardicdolltachycardicdoll member
edited August 2014 in Pregnant after a Loss
Hello,

Im looking to connect with other women who may be able to relate. My first son was born with a CHD called HLHS, we went the palliative surgery route, he ended up in cardiac failure so we went with an ABO incompatible heart tx at the time. He did well but still challenged many obstacles. .long story short passed away at 11 months and 1 week ( 11 years ago) from going septic. An infection they couldn't find. My second, I was forced into an abortion because it was an ectopic pregnancy. My third was a miscarriage this last may. We lost the baby at 10 weeks. Now we have tested twice this week, two days apart, both positive. Extremely nervous!
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Re: 3 losses, pregnant again. wish me luck!

  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    I am so sorry for your losses. ((Hugs))

    Congrats on your new pregnancy and welcome to the board!
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  • pblgepblge member
    I'm so very sorry for your losses. ((hugs)) You have been through so many awful things! I really hope this is your forever baby! Congratulations!
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  • goldengirl84goldengirl84 member
    I'm so sorry for all the heartbreak you've had to endure. Hoping this baby will be healthy and happy!
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    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
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  • heathersf11heathersf11 member
    ((((Hugs)))) I am sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board. 
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • jesswein9jesswein9 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I have also had 3 losses, so I can relate in some ways. I used to work in a pediatric cardiac ICU, so I know hlhs very well and all that the families go through. ((Hugs)) for all that you have been through. Best of luck to you and welcome!

    Me (28) DH (27)
    Married June 2012
    Started TTC July 2013
         BFP #1          August 2013          EDD 4/29/14            natural MC at 6-7 week
    BFP #2         January 2014         EDD 9/24/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #3         March 2014            EDD 12/4/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #4         August 2014            EDD 4/20/15        Hoping for our rainbow
                                                It's a BOY!
     
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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome and congrats on this new pregnancy.
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    BFP #1 5/20/10 Natural MC at 5w4d 5/28/10
    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
    "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    So sorry for your losses. Welcome!

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • nohalo21nohalo21 member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome and congratulations!
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  • haleyusfhaleyusf member
    Welcome and congratulations! I'm so sorry for your losses, and I hope your stay here with us is long and joyful.

    DS born 10/22/2008
    DD born 12/23/2014

    m/c @10wks 12/2007
    m/c @4wks 3/2014


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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    So sorry for your losses:( congrats on this pg! Welcome!
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  • nbkistnbkist member
    I have had four losses (three miscarriages and one stillborn).  It's hard and scary but stay optimisitic.  Lots of thoughts and prayers for you and your little one.
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  • tachycardicdolltachycardicdoll member
    Thank you So much everyone! You are all So welcoming. I am very much an optimist, but I am unsure, yet something in my gut says this pregnancy will be okay. If that makes sense. I'm trying to be So careful the way I eat, how much water I drink...and even how I move. It's hard not to wonder if I am to blame for the last miscarriage. For example, the other day I jumped off the couch to go do something. And I consciously told myself, slow down...no jerking motions. I cant below but feel like a walking time bomb.
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  • tachycardicdolltachycardicdoll member
    Thank you :)
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