So I was poking around on the site because I'm bored and I found that October 14 apparently has a private group for their regulars separate from the birth month board. :-?
So I was poking around on the site because I'm bored and I found that October 14 apparently has a private group for their regulars separate from the birth month board. :-?
I don't know if I find it too odd. I can understand the need to get away from the newbies or randoms. That said, I wouldn't want to be in one or part of one because it would get cliquey and exclusive, which I don't like. It just furthers my thoughts on how the regs are very cliquey over there. I swear, if this baby is born in October, there is NO way in hell Im leaving this BMB.
TB private group. I'd get a Facebook group - it's a different website, a different format - this is just another group on this site but it's not public I guess?
It just struck me as weird because the description is just "a place for the regulars to talk privately". There's no other qualification or theme to the group, say like everyone having twins or being AMA or something like that.
I'm not sure if it's still this way or if it has changed, but when the groups first started, ALL MODS could view any group they wanted, even if they weren't invited to the group.
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How in sweet hell do you create your own private group on TB? I can't even get the app to work half the time.
Those girls are serious about their "regulars". Like whoa. I wonder if they have a secret handshake too?
If they have a secret handshake, I want a secret milkshake
TB private group. I'd get a Facebook group - it's a different website, a different format - this is just another group on this site but it's not public I guess?
It just struck me as weird because the description is just "a place for the regulars to talk privately". There's no other qualification or theme to the group, say like everyone having twins or being AMA or something like that.
Ugh, how obnoxious. When I was on TTGP when TTC DS, there was an off-board group for the super kool kids. They had all these inside jokes that they made references to on the main board, which made everyone feel left out.
If we cared we would probably make a private board so you wouldn't have seen it to begin with. Just sayin'.
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That's how I read it at first too, but I actually think she was saying the 'O14 regs' were side-eyeing that there is a secret group. Not side-eyeing our side-eyeing of it. I think. Or I've side-eyed so much I've gone crossed-eyed.
I'm going to start my own super-secret group which is just me speaking to myself. I'm going to have soooo many inside jokes!
If we cared we would probably make a private board so you wouldn't have seen it to begin with. Just sayin'.
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That's how I read it at first too, but I actually think she was saying the 'O14 regs' were side-eyeing that there is a secret group. Not side-eyeing our side-eyeing of it. I think. Or I've side-eyed so much I've gone crossed-eyed.
I'm going to start my own super-secret group which is just me speaking to myself. I'm going to have soooo many inside jokes!
This. We aren't side-eyeing YOU. We are wondering why there's this super secret reg-only board that's making us look like turd-faces.
If we cared we would probably make a private board so you wouldn't have seen it to begin with. Just sayin'.
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That's how I read it at first too, but I actually think she was saying the 'O14 regs' were side-eyeing that there is a secret group. Not side-eyeing our side-eyeing of it. I think. Or I've side-eyed so much I've gone crossed-eyed.
I'm going to start my own super-secret group which is just me speaking to myself. I'm going to have soooo many inside jokes!
This. We aren't side-eyeing YOU. We are wondering why there's this super secret reg-only board that's making us look like turd-faces. ------- Yep, this.
The private group was started when TB came out with the options for private groups. Our former Mod was the only one who was able to invite people to it and all of the posts are about eating healthy. Obviously none of us cared, so the group died. BUT we do have a secret handshake
I believe I read something about the secret handshake in one of the BSC girl posts.
The private group was started when TB came out with the options for private groups. Our former Mod was the only one who was able to invite people to it and all of the posts are about eating healthy. Obviously none of us cared, so the group died. BUT we do have a secret handshake
I believe I read something about the secret handshake in one of the BSC girl posts.
I still prefer the secret milkshake. But only if it's the pumpkin milkshake from Culver's.
I don't know if I find it too odd. I can understand the need to get away from the newbies or randoms. That said, I wouldn't want to be in one or part of one because it would get cliquey and exclusive, which I don't like. It just furthers my thoughts on how the regs are very cliquey over there. I swear, if this baby is born in October, there is NO way in hell Im leaving this BMB.
Do people actually change boards based on when the baby is born? I'm probably going in December, but y'all are stuck with me for liiiiife.
Shut your face @Maelara we are NOT having our babies in December, we are having them together at the exact same time, on the exact same day, November 1st at 12pm so, we don't have to be anywhere near those losers that are having babies at the END of November.
who is the gate keeper and how are they gate keeping? Like what are the qualifications for being a "reg?" Are there a series of tests and challenges one must pass before joining?
I think for N14 you would have to know the definition of a peesh.
who is the gate keeper and how are they gate keeping? Like what are the qualifications for being a "reg?" Are there a series of tests and challenges one must pass before joining?
I don't know if I find it too odd. I can understand the need to get away from the newbies or randoms. That said, I wouldn't want to be in one or part of one because it would get cliquey and exclusive, which I don't like. It just furthers my thoughts on how the regs are very cliquey over there. I swear, if this baby is born in October, there is NO way in hell Im leaving this BMB.
Do people actually change boards based on when the baby is born? I'm probably going in December, but y'all are stuck with me for liiiiife.
I don't plan on it. My babies could come in October, but I'm a N14 harpie for life!
Peesh power!
Yeah, I don't know what that means. I haven't been sleeping well....
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who is the gate keeper and how are they gate keeping? Like what are the qualifications for being a "reg?" Are there a series of tests and challenges one must pass before joining?
I think for N14 you would have to know the definition of a peesh.
I was here when that thread was originally posted and I re-read it again a few weeks ago when it was linked again, and I *still* don't understand the difference between a peesh and a peech, lol.
TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14) Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!
Re the milkshakes. They literally are a "secret milkshake," at least at our Culver's here. They aren't on the menu yet, but if you ask they will make them! I think I'm going to try the pumpkin cheesecake concrete mixer next.
I don't know if I find it too odd. I can understand the need to get away from the newbies or randoms. That said, I wouldn't want to be in one or part of one because it would get cliquey and exclusive, which I don't like. It just furthers my thoughts on how the regs are very cliquey over there. I swear, if this baby is born in October, there is NO way in hell Im leaving this BMB.
Do people actually change boards based on when the baby is born? I'm probably going in December, but y'all are stuck with me for liiiiife.
Shut your face @Maelara we are NOT having our babies in December, we are having them together at the exact same time, on the exact same day, November 1st at 12pm so, we don't have to be anywhere near those losers that are having babies at the END of November.
Lol, I was quoting @Maelara! I am one of the losers having my baby at the END of November. You should be careful calling his momma a loser. He IS the one who knocks!
:P
lol I think you are all stuck with inferior due dates, since Super Chloe was born on July 29. Though to be fair, Nov. 2 would have been preferable.
I don't know if I find it too odd. I can understand the need to get away from the newbies or randoms. That said, I wouldn't want to be in one or part of one because it would get cliquey and exclusive, which I don't like. It just furthers my thoughts on how the regs are very cliquey over there. I swear, if this baby is born in October, there is NO way in hell Im leaving this BMB.
Do people actually change boards based on when the baby is born? I'm probably going in December, but y'all are stuck with me for liiiiife.
Shut your face @Maelara we are NOT having our babies in December, we are having them together at the exact same time, on the exact same day, November 1st at 12pm so, we don't have to be anywhere near those losers that are having babies at the END of November.
Lol, I was quoting @Maelara! I am one of the losers having my baby at the END of November. You should be careful calling his momma a loser. He IS the one who knocks!
:P
lol I think you are all stuck with inferior due dates, since Super Chloe was born on July 29. Though to be fair, Nov. 2 would have been preferable.
who is the gate keeper and how are they gate keeping? Like what are the qualifications for being a "reg?" Are there a series of tests and challenges one must pass before joining?
Oh please let it be like Pregnant Ninja Warrior with an obstacle course!
Well, after she ties her shoes without help she's going to have to pick up a bunch of cheerios scattered all over the floor without kneeling or tipping over, watch the Notebook without crying and do the whole thing in the fastest time without taking any pee breaks to qualify!
who is the gate keeper and how are they gate keeping? Like what are the qualifications for being a "reg?" Are there a series of tests and challenges one must pass before joining?
I think for N14 you would have to know the definition of a peesh.
I was here when that thread was originally posted and I re-read it again a few weeks ago when it was linked again, and I *still* don't understand the difference between a peesh and a peech, lol.
It will be kinda like on Eyes Wide Shut where there is no second password.
As soon as my daughter wakes up from her nap, I'm getting a milkshake. Look what I started!! Gah!!
I just got one from the hospital cafe. So yummy! I blame this thread.
I'm trying to get myself motivated enough to go get one from DQ. Plus, I have guilt because of my diet we will see if my craving wins or the guilt.
Get one but share a few bites with that cutie and bam less calories already!!!!
My craving did win! I got a mint Oreo milkshake from DQ. Tali had more than a few sips... Hahah! She had some and just loooved it. She demanded some each time I had a drink. What a monkey ^_^
Another O'14 driveby. We're not all BSC notches...don't hate!
Some of you do seem pretty nice. I apologize for my earlier comment about the drama, although I stand by the fact that I'm glad I stayed on N14 because it is great here. That said, I've lurked some on your board and the Weaky Face thing was HI-larious.
How in sweet hell do you create your own private group on TB? I can't even get the app to work half the time.
Those girls are serious about their "regulars". Like whoa. I wonder if they have a secret handshake too?
If they have a secret handshake, I want a secret milkshake
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Re: Private group BMB?
It just struck me as weird because the description is just "a place for the regulars to talk privately". There's no other qualification or theme to the group, say like everyone having twins or being AMA or something like that.
Eta: I hate mobile posting.
I have a few people on here in my FB that I talk to, but having a different board is too much. Just go to FB.
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Those girls are serious about their "regulars". Like whoa. I wonder if they have a secret handshake too?
If they have a secret handshake, I want a secret milkshake
If they have a secret handshake, I want a secret milkshake
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You're a GENIUS!
Or being ftms! Must keep all the knowledge out!
We're side-eyeing this too.
That's how I read it at first too, but I actually think she was saying the 'O14 regs' were side-eyeing that there is a secret group. Not side-eyeing our side-eyeing of it. I think. Or I've side-eyed so much I've gone crossed-eyed.
I'm going to start my own super-secret group which is just me speaking to myself. I'm going to have soooo many inside jokes!
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Maybe the secret group is "ladys only"
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Yep, this.
Well just from looking around on their board it looks like their MOD is banned and they are looking for a new one. :-/
agree with some other ladies if I happen to go in October I'm staying in Nov '14
N14 Nov. Siggy: CELEBRATION!
TTC since Sept 2011, Unexplained IF
Oct 12 - Jan 14: 3 clomid/TI cycles, 2 hysteroscopies, 2 IUIs, 1 BFP (MMC @ 12w), 2 more IUIs
Feb 14: Gonal-f + IUI #5 = BFP! (EDD 11/4/14)
Baby boy arrived 11/13/14!
It will be kinda like on Eyes Wide Shut where there is no second password.
My craving did win! I got a mint Oreo milkshake from DQ. Tali had more than a few sips... Hahah! She had some and just loooved it. She demanded some each time I had a drink. What a monkey ^_^
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014