So I came across a pretty neat idea online that we've decided to pursue with our expected baby / kids that I thought I would share on here...
I'm horrible at making time for myself, and I kick myself in the ass every day for not keeping a journal while I was pregnant with my first- so we created an e-mail address for all three of our kids- with the intention of writing periodically each week, and continue to until they're grown- and will give them the user name/password at a certain point in their lives when the time is right- graduating, etc. Just myself, my husband, and our families / grandparents have the addresses.
Just wanted to share because for the first time yesterday, I sent one to the baby that I'm just about 11 weeks pregnant with, and the feeling I got was incredible. It established more of a connection than I've had so far, lets you speak whats on your mind and what you can't say to them just yet, and doubles as a journal and document how your feeling and when- with details. I e-mailed a picture of the first ultrasound that we just had, and a picture of my belly as it popped this week. It was just a very positive experience that I was in need of. So if any of you moms need a pick me up or a way to remember the details- I suggest trying it out.
Also, as a side note, I also wrote one to my three year old afterwards (We made seperate e-mail addresses for each child). And the difference it was writing to my son, and writing to the baby- was eye opening. Its funny how even though so young, you already have a specific tone and bond set with your kids that's probably steady for the rest of your lives together.. He son is a goofball, so I wrote accordingly. But writing the baby, hell you dont know if its a boy, a girl, it's personality... It just makes you really think about what to expect, and add in a little more excitement of the unknown..
Re: Emailing Baby! Anyone else heard of it or started?
that's very cute! ive heard of this before.
will you occasionally log into the email? don't some of them "shut down" after so long of no activity?
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