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mholmes92 · September 2014

We'll after staying off my feet all day the bright red blood came back along with cramps. I just feel like I have started my period and I just feel like it's not going to happen this time around. I don't want to say I'm ok with it (cuz I'm not) but I guess the beat way to put it is I've just about accepted it.

I'm gonna still sorta be here I'll check back in after I follow up with the ob (Tuesday or Wednesday). But I'm not confident at all that I'll be staying with you ladies.

mholmes92 · September 2014

Did any one else just know. Like you just had this feeling? A feeling like it wasnt going to have the outcome you wanted?

FrecklesInside · September 2014

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I'm still hopeful for you.

mholmes92 · September 2014

*Can't edit*

Not a fear...or a scared feeling I mean just a "I know it's not going to work out". I'm not asking for you to compair your pregnancies with mine is just want to know I'm not alone feeling like this.

Mary and Dave · September 2014

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I'm sending good thoughts and positive vibes your way.

Skrittens · September 2014

Sorry I don't have a similar experience to share. I am sending good thoughts, peace and hugs your way.

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alexandria22489 · September 2014

Sorry you are going through this, I'm so hopeful for you. T&P

071115 · September 2014

Sorry you are going through this

litt1er4 · September 2014

I am sorry you're going through this, T&Ps!

uneek1323 · September 2014

mholmes92 said:

*Can't edit* Not a fear...or a scared feeling I mean just a "I know it's not going to work out". I'm not asking for you to compair your pregnancies with mine is just want to know I'm not alone feeling like this.

I'm sorry you're going through this and I'm hopeful for you.

To answer your question above, yes. Twice my feelings were right and one time they were wrong. I hope your feelings are wrong, but you are most certainly not alone. ((hugs))

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nannabee21 · September 2014

When I miscarried my first I knew. I had a gut feeling things weren't right. I was spotting and always measured about two weeks behind. It definitely didn't make the loss any easier though. T&P's to you. Here's to hoping you are wrong. Hugs.

headyhansen · September 2014

Sending up prayers. I hope this will pass and you will continue on without any more complications! Hugs!

marissalucia · September 2014

I'm so sorry you're going through this, T&Ps. And unfortunately yes, when I m/c I had light spotting for about a week before the heavy bleeding started, and that whole week everyone told me it was normal, and everything was fine (my ob had also said it was probably normal bleeding, although I never had the chance to get an u/s with that pregnancy) but I just had a gut feeling things weren't right, eventually I started bleeding heavily and that was that. I hope that's not the case for you.

mangomimosa · September 2014

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I hope you get in to the OB Tues!

Krista528 · September 2014

I'm sorry that this is happening to you. I hope your ob has some answers. Take care of yourself.

ashleyrh661 · September 2014

Just so so sorry this is happening. I had a missed miscarriage and even though I never had bleeding things never felt right. I just had this gut feeling it wasn't going to work out. And I didn't have ANY history of loss prior and a completely healthy pregnancy with our son.

JCWhitey · September 2014

So sorry hon! I'm hoping you still get good news at the OBs. To answer your question, I think you were gone when I had mine back in April/May but with that one I knew, but I had the feeling from the moment I got my BFP that something was off. It was confirmed a week later that little bit didn't stick. But even though it ended almost as soon as I was aware of it, it still sucked a lot.

tngrl3 · September 2014

mholmes92 said:

*Can't edit* Not a fear...or a scared feeling I mean just a "I know it's not going to work out". I'm not asking for you to compair your pregnancies with mine is just want to know I'm not alone feeling like this.

I unfortunately had this gut feeling with my recent loss. I'm sorry you are going through this. Sending T&P that everything turns out ok.

Joon+ · September 2014

Sorry you're in this limbo... Especially on a long weekend when you have to wait for answers. Hoping there's still a chance for things to turn around for you. T&Ps.

selena61307 · September 2014

I am sorry. I have had that feeling 3 times once I was wrong. I hope you are wrong and things are okay.

Lark425 · September 2014

So sorry! I am hopeful for you, I am still sending T&P. Take care of you. Again so sorry you are going through this.

molassa · September 2014

Hugs, prayers and keeping you in my thoughts.

cesquer · September 2014

I really hope you are wrong. I had the opposite. I was convinced all was fine, when it really wasn't. Feelings aren't fact. It could all still work out. My hope and prayer for you is that it does. Xo

Lmsq1611 · September 2014

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I don't have a similar experience but I know sometimes my coping mechanism for things that I am worried about is to convince myself it won't work out to mentally prepare myself. Maybe this is what you are doing and that's why you feel it won't work out. We will all keep hoping things do work out though and that your LO is healthy and growing inside of you.

starsailorr26 · September 2014

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this uncertainty. I understand what you are describing because I felt that way about the pregnancy that ended in a miscarriage. I am hoping for a better outcome for you.

wendyld · September 2014

I definitely had a bit of a hopeless feeling in the days leading up to this loss too. but I was spotting and still hadn't found the HB on the Doppler.

I am so sorry you're in limbo.

bdazzld · September 2014

I'm so sorry. FX for you.

PAkathy · September 2014

mholmes92 said:
Did any one else just know. Like you just had this feeling? A feeling like it wasnt going to have the outcome you wanted?

I had a miscarriage back in March of this year. Hope this isn't the case for u, but I did have that feeling that u're talking about. For some reason, I just knew after spotting on and off and then having the abd pressure. You are not alone. And if for some reason, this isn't the time, just know that it will happen again for u. Hope u find some comfort with this reply.

jap618 · September 2014

I'm so sorry you're going through all of this

crunchymamaof2 · September 2014

I'm so sorry

I did have a gut feeling with my loss. But things started off shaky so that's probably why. Praying your feeling is wrong.

chaysefaith · September 2014

I'm so sorry you're going through this.

To answer your question, I had that feeling the entire time I was pregnant, even before any bleeding started. And as weird as it sounds, it was almost a relief when it was over. Not that I was happy with the outcome but I felt like I had been holding my breath for 5 months and I could finally let it out and breathe. I never looked to the future with the Jonah, I never worried about getting to L&D when the time came, I didn't buy any maternity clothes, I didn't worry about who was going to shave my legs when I couldn't reach. There was never a future and my subconscious knew it.

kellbell1982 · September 2014

I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. Tbh I did have that feeling with my two losses but they ended early and I had no symptoms of pregnancy at all so it never really felt like a baby was coming.

JessS29 · September 2014

So very sorry you are going through this. With both my losses I knew something was wrong but they were very different (natural mc-started spotting/bleeding vs mmc went in for 12 week us but had a bad feeling I cant explain for 2 weeks). I sincerely hope your bleeding stops and all is well. But I'll be sending t&ps regardless.