Is this the right board? Sorry I have been MIA

Re: Is this the right board? Sorry I have been MIA

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  kaf7 member

  August 2014

  That looks like a bfp to me!! Most of the girls (maybe all?) on this board had primary IF. But we all have at least one child at this point. There is a pregnancy check in weekly. You may also find the secondary IF board helpful or if your BFP is a true one, there is also the Pregnant after IF (PAIF) board. Other girls can comment but you may find that this board is a good fit for you. GL

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  Jodee37 member

  August 2014

  to get support one must GIVE support. it's that simple. you waltzed in to a board of women STRUGGLING to get pregnant and announce a rather obvious pregnancy. would you do that in real life? walk into a support group for infertile women you don't know and shake a pee stick in their faces and yell "hey i'm pregnant bitches!" and then leave?

  
  

  i don't think so.

  
  

  it's called being considerate. 

  
  

  Me: 36, DH: 36

  DH's SA = normal

  1 tube only wonder

  AFC 3-5, AMH 0.30

  
  

  BFP #1 3/29/11.  EDD 12/4/11... Missed m/c 5/9/11. Cytotec fail. D&C 5/17/11.

  BFP #2   7/5/11.  EDD 3/14/12... Our rainbow Kellen born 3/14/12 via c/s.

  BFP #3 5/30/13.  EDD 2/8/14...  6wk u/s HB 126. 8wk u/s lost HB. D&C 7/12/13.

  BFP #4 2/18/14.  EDD 10/30/14... Ruptured ectopic with L tube removed & D&C 3/7/14.

  BFP #5 7/27/14.  EDD 4/9/15...  m/c @ 5w4d.

  
  

  IVF #1    Oct 2014 - antagonist protocol: 9R, 7M, 5F. 3dt of 3 Grade 2 embies. BFN. 

  IVF #2    Jan 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.  Converted to IUI #1. BFFN

  IVF #2.1 March 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.
  
  

  BFP #6  (SUPRISE!) 3/19/15.  EDD 11/30/15...  CP at 4w2d.

  IUI #2:    Clomid + Follistim = 3 follies. BFN.

  IVF #2.2 May 2015 - horrible response to micro lupron flare protocol: 3R, 3M, 3F. 3dt of 2 Grade 3 embies. BFFN. 

  
  BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
  
  the universe can fuck off.

  
  

  
   "You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope
  
  

  all AL welcome. TTC #2 for 43 44 months.

  follow my infertility journey here at timestandsstillblog.com

  
  

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  pettycrocker member

  August 2014

  Yes, and by the way.. We can see you here too. You were the one that was rude.  8-|

  
  

  
  Spontaneous pregnancy #1
  DD1 July 31, 2011

  
  Trying for #2 since Oct 11

  732973 Clomid Cycles

  2 IUIs 

  3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
  Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
  Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
  Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
  Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 
  
  
  
  

  

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  Momarazzi007 member

  August 2014

  That was pretty tacky... Very thoughtless and heartless. Know your audience, if you never intro'd don't throw a bfp in their faces.

  January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
  June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
  
  November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
  January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
  
  SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
  November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
  April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
  FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
  BABY BOY VINCENT!
  
  
  We can't wait to meet you!
  Conception: Potato Love!
  

  
  

  

  
  

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  CeCe8579 member

  August 2014

  Wow OP, you really NAILED IT....PO!

  Carly

  (Former UN: iloveshanej)
  
  

  Birdie born 05/01/2007
  Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          

  
  

  
  

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  phishgirl29 member

  August 2014

  Bye OP.  

  
  

  

                      

  IVF #1 September 2012, beta #1: 213; beta #2: 580. Expecting Twins! 

  EDD 6/9 lost one angel at 9w3d  

  Baby boy arrived 6/1/13

  FET #1 10/14, BFP -Chemical Pregnancy

  Everyone Welcome

  
  

  

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  kaf7 member

  August 2014

  Sorry if I am in the minority here, but I am going to stick up for the OP in posting on this forum. I recall how it can be upsetting to have someone have their first post on the IF board be about a bfp, but I think it was pretty reasonable that she post here and ask if this was the right place for her. I don't think the public flogging needs to occur on this board. I know I am not a frequent poster here anymore, but I think that this thread is getting away from the spirit and support we try to offer on SAIF. If someone has stumbled here accidentally we try to politely guide them in the right direction. I for one, think this board might be a good fit for the OP and I would hope that the negativity expressed above doesn't prevent her from finding support on this or other bump forums.

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  e74 member

  August 2014

  Looks like a bfp to me!   Congratulations!  

  DS#1 born 9/23/06 

  Twins DS#2 and 3 born at 31 weeks, 3 days due to a short cervix on 8/2/13.

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  Robeano member

  August 2014

  I agree with @Kaf7, sometimes rules seem arbitrary and strange when you are brand new.
  

  Diagonsed PCOS TTC since May 2009
  

  First M/C December 2010 Second M/C August 2011
  Oct 2011~Second round clomid 50 mg; BFN
  Nov 2011~Third round clomid 50 mg: BFP
  Dec 11- Beta #1 91;Dec 13- Beta #2 186.2
  Dec 27- third miscarriage
  May 25th- Beta #1 369;May 27th- Beta #2 798
  Baby girl born Jan 23, 9lbs 3oz, 21 1/2" long
  May 27th-Beta #1 80; May 29th- Beta #2 304; May 31st- Beta #3 860
  

  

  

  

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  Momarazzi007 member

  August 2014

  kaf7 said:

  Sorry if I am in the minority here, but I am going to stick up for the OP in posting on this forum. I recall how it can be upsetting to have someone have their first post on the IF board be about a bfp, but I think it was pretty reasonable that she post here and ask if this was the right place for her. I don't think the public flogging needs to occur on this board. I know I am not a frequent poster here anymore, but I think that this thread is getting away from the spirit and support we try to offer on SAIF. If someone has stumbled here accidentally we try to politely guide them in the right direction. I for one, think this board might be a good fit for the OP and I would hope that the negativity expressed above doesn't prevent her from finding support on this or other bump forums.

  It wasn't that she posted here and asked if it was the right place, it was she went on 2IF first with a thread- "I'm think I'm totes pregly y'all" when she had never intro'd or commented and no one knew who the hell she was. She did it correctly over here- but had zero respect for 2IF and just did a rude drive by. Then after got called on it dirty deleted and came here. That is the issue- oh! And the fact that she was rude in doing that- got called on it and came over here ON ANOTHER BOARD- and called them rude for calling her on her drive by. So now you know the rest if the story.
  

  January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
  June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
  
  November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
  January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
  
  SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
  November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
  April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
  FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
  BABY BOY VINCENT!
  
  
  We can't wait to meet you!
  Conception: Potato Love!
  

  
  

  

  
  

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  Momarazzi007 member

  August 2014

  Also FYI- op has been around 4years- that's longer than me- not a newb- she knew damn well she was throwing her pregnancy in their faces.

  January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
  June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
  
  November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
  January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
  
  SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
  November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
  April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
  FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
  BABY BOY VINCENT!
  
  
  We can't wait to meet you!
  Conception: Potato Love!
  

  
  

  

  
  

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  TJ1979 member

  August 2014

  Agreed that it is bad form to talk bad about one board on another board, and of course to throw a BFP in the faces of an IF board.
  However, I like to think that SAIF is a welcoming, forgive and forget board. Everyone is welcome here. So OP, looks like a BFP to me! I hope you work on your manners a touch, and then stick around!

  TTC with PCOS since November 2009
  

  IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
  IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
  IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
  beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
  beta #2 11/28 = 2055
  Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
  Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
   
  

  
  

  

  

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  jessica_gail2 member

  August 2014

  Congrats on your BFP! Hope you join SAIF's pregnancy check-in.

  MF (low motility) - Began stims for IVF#1 7/21/12

  ER 8/2/12 - 14 eggs retrieved, 12 mature and ICSI'd, 6 fertilized. ET 8/7 - 2 embies. Beta#1 8/17: 143! Beta#2 8/20: 590! Beta#3 8/22: 1,162! 1st US 9/4: one beautiful little bean with the best sounding HB I've ever heard!

  
  

  
  

  
  

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  imoverit member

  August 2014 edited August 2014

  Congrats! Lesson learned. Stay put here and intro over at PAIF too.
  

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