Hi ladies!
I'm a STM due in October, but my son is 7 years old now, so there's a lot of new baby stuff out there for me to choose from. I've honestly been avoiding buying anything because I didn't feel secure in my pregnancy due to repeat losses. Well, that and we don't have a place to store baby stuff because we haven't started the babies room yet... eek!
Anyway, so we have a crib and a new carseat (done!). I have clothes and things too, but what new baby gadgets could you "not live without". I need to get on buying things, and now I'm totally overwhelmed with all the decisions.
What's a good "natural" mattress?
Diaper pail?
Natural lotions/creams/wipe recs?
I will be formula feeding (medical reasons), so any recommendations between Enfamil and Good Start would be appreciated. Also, I used Dr. Brown bottles with my DS, but there are so many new ones out there, I'm not sure what to do!
I'm leaning towards the Baby Jogger City Mini so unless anyone strongly has an opinion against that, then that's a done deal.
Give me your guidance please! What would you be unable to live without, or what would you consider your best/favourite purchase?
Thanks!
Me: Endometriosis, PCOS, Insulin Resistance, Estrogen Dominance, Irregular Cycles
DH: 100% Abnormal Sperm Morphology
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BFP #2 "Quinn" EDD 06/21/13- MMC @ 8 weeks - Disc. 12/12/12 @ 13w0d
BFP #3 "Luna" EDD 03/31/14- MC 07/29/13 @ 5 w0d
BFP #4 "Star" EDD 07/06/14- MC 11/28/13 @ 8 weeks
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Re: Help me do my homework! (Baby Gear Related)
We use mostly honest co. lotions, body wash, diaper cream, etc. all their stuff is good for babies and adults, their shampoo/bodywash is tear free too. You used to only be able to get stuff online from their site and the best price is still to do their monthly bundle but you can get their stuff at target and Bed bath and beyond, probably some other retailers too. All natural, huge list of things their products don't contain.
We use mam nipples I really like their stuff, and pacis too! Don't forget the pacis!
Do you have a swing?
This is making me want another baby haha!
BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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Aden & Anais burpy bibs. Soft, absorbent, and can double as a (big, curved) burp cloth for you or a big cape-style bib for baby. They are on the pricey side ($22 for 2) but I constantly choose them over all our other burp cloths and am disappointed when they are all dirty.
We have a Diaper Genie. I have nothing to compare it to, but it seems to work well. With dirty diapers in an un-air-conditioned room in the summer, it is usually full and needs to be emptied anyway before the smell gets too bad (that includes smelly formula poops). That's assuming you are using disposables, though.
Are you only considering Enfamil and Good Start for formula? Baby Bargains recommends buying the cheapest formula you can find, since the nutritional profile is all federally regulated anyway. A friend's pedi gave the same recommendation. There may be other reasons not to do this, but I haven't done much research on it. We supplement and use the BJ's house brand (Berkeley & Jensen), which is $8/lb versus $14/lb (at BJ's) for the brand names. Even with Enfamil coupons, the house brand is cheapest. I know others who are very happy with the Target generic. That's assuming you aren't looking for something special.
Summer Infant SwaddleMes have been great for us -- easier and more secure than a swaddle blanket and they keep him calm and happy while he sleeps. They were the only easy-swaddle product that fit our little baby when he was born (early/small for gestational age; 5 lbs when he came home from the hospital).
We like the Boon Lawn countertop drying rack for drying bottles and parts, and the OXO Tot Dishwasher Basket for washing them. I thought both were superfluous until we actually started using bottles!
We have the Summer Bentwood Bassinet. In general our son would rather sleep in our bed but I don't think it's the bassinet that's the problem! It's cute, sways silently, and plays music and other sounds.
I read Baby Bargains and Lucie's List for recommendations. Both were super helpful! Congrats and good luck!
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
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Things I love:
A&A swaddles & sheets
Valco Snap stroller (12 lbs and bigger basket than the city mini, as well as bonus pockets on the back for storage) I have the double & love it.
https://www.valcobaby.com
Mamaroo: for a swing
Aquaphor for diaper cream & rashes
Delta Fun Time Playard (square full size)
Cradle with a 20lb weight limit...room in longer.
Stainless Steel trash can....doesn't hold odor like a plastic pail.
We also formula feed and my son has done great with Enfamil. It is the only formula we tried. We also use playtex ventaire bottles and they are awesome! We started with Tommee tipee but he was spitting up a lot so we switched to the ventaires and the spitting up stopped
We cloth diaper now, but we did do disposables and we had the arm and hammer diaper pail and it worked great. Held tons of diapers. In the beginning we changed it twice a week, but when he was older only once a week. No stink either
Good luck!
TTC since August 2011
BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh
BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!





Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
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I also agree with Lucies List! Happy shopping!!
My suggestions are:
Diaper pail-Diaper Dekor ( did a lot of research on this and loooove it)
Stroller- We love our City select and Uppababy gluxe umbrella stroller.
Waste of money- baby baths ( I just got in the bath with dd and by 6 months she could bathe on her own once she could sit up). Nursing pillow ( not sure if you would use it anyway if u are formula feeding. But if you do just use a regular pillow)
Baby monitor. Unless you live in a gigantic house you can pretty much hear when baby cries from all over the house. If you must get a monitor don't get the ones with the sensor pads. False alarms way too often!!
Must haves for newborn- for us I liked having a little Moses basket so I could place dd in it for naps when she was an infant and carry it with me wherever I was in the house. Watching tv in living room, outside deck etc...
Sound machine!! Or just get an app on your phone, does the same trick
Wubbanup infant pacifier! So much better than a regular soother. Very easy for DD to find and put back into her mouth if it falls out
Miracle blanket swaddler- amazing for that first month
Get a wrap. Personally I loved my Nuroo pocket. Best purchase ever! Get it on amazon! I would put dd in it and instantly she'd fall asleep and I could do errands around the house! For me definite must have for 0-3 months.
Good luck!

BFP#1 D&C May 18th 2012 at 9 wks. EDD Dec 17 2012BFP#2 CP Sept 17th 2012 at 4.5 wks. EDD May 23 2013
BFP#3 EDD June 24th 2013 IT'S A GIRL!
BFP#4 EDD March 2 2015
TTC started Oct '10
Me: AMA w/RSD, atypical PCOS w/IR, LPD and High Prolactin. Controlled HP post-loss.
DH: Low-T and borderline morph
18 cycles, 3 medicated w/RE to get to a BFP!
EDD 9/7/12, Saw HB @7w3d,missed m/c 1/30 @8w3d, d&c 2/8
11 AL cycles, 9 medicated/IUI cycles. All BFFN!
Moving forward with IVF
BFP#2 our little cycle break surprise on AL cycle 12! EDD 10/27/13
Beta #1: 41 Beta #2: 398; perfect u/s 3/11 hb @133bpm
u/s 3/25 one perfect hb @183 bpm, adjusted EDD 10/23/13
MaterniT21 and carrier screens normal. It's a girl!!!
Severe Pre-E, HFpEF, PE, AMA & IF= OAD
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Swaddle me was amazing, you just have the velcro to snap it all together and you're done, great at 3 am lol.
We still prefer doc Brown's bottles, they work well.
I could not live without my swing or rock and play, I call them baby holders. Need to pee? Put child in baby holder and go.
I love my boppy, I do BF but I actually used it as a portable seat for me the first two weeks pp. It helped me to deal with the pain of sitting but I also tore badly so there's that.
GL sweetie!
TTC since August 2011
BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
"If there ever comes a day when we can't be together... Keep me in your heart, I'll stay there forever." ~ Winnie the Pooh
BFP#2 4/14/13 EDD 12/24/13 Please be our rainbow after the storm!





Beta#1 @ 15dpo 274, P4 16.9 Beta#2 @ 18dpo 940!! Doubling time of 40 hours!! u/s @ 6w2d showed a beautiful HB of 120! u/s @ 10w1d HB 174!! Grow, LO Grow!! Found out 7/22 we are TEAM BLUE!!
Zaiden Harper was born 12/22/13 at 1:46 am. 9lbs 8oz and 22in
~*~AL Always Welcome~*~
I walk every day, so our Jeep jogging stroller (a hand-me down from a friend) and the Carseat Canopy have both been perfect. The stroller has fat, nubby tires for dirt trails, but also does great on the sidewalk. The canopy is perfect for blocking the sun, but you can position it to let air flow in.
MAM pacifiers have been much better than the Avent ones we bought originally.
For a diaper pail, we just use a tall stainless steel trash can by Simple Human. You can use regular trash bags with it, and it blocks the smell great (I only smell it when I open the lid to drop in a diaper).
SwaddleMe swaddle blankets or newborn sleep sacks have been lifesavers.
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First off, HI!!!!
I'm so excited you're so close to meeting your little pumpkin!
Now, to business...
Someone else mentioned the Naturepedic. I think Serta has a natural/organic one as well for mattresses.
For a diaper pail, we have a Diaper Genie. In all honesty though, you don't *need* one. We could just as easily have used the regular trash can. I generally do that with DS's diapers (he's almost 3), and with him I run the stinky diapers out to the outdoor can directly. Pretty much I just use the diaper genie with DD because we have it and it's handy when she's on the changing table.
I like Burts Bees diaper cream and baby wash. California Baby is another one I've heard is good.
Not a bottle feeder, but Doc Browns are still spoken highly of. I've only really used Similac for formula (had to supplement both kids). Don't forget to get on the formula makers mailing lists to get coupons and such sent to you.
I've heard good things about the Citi Select and Citi Mini. We went with the BOB (single and a double) and love them. We also have a cheap umbrella stroller and have a sit & stand enroute.
As for random recs:
A swing. We have the snugabunny, I think the new one is a snugamonkey (same swing, different theme). It's been a lifesaver with DD.
Baby wearing. I'd recommend either an Ergo or a Beco
BFP#2 2.5.11 (EDD 10.15.11) DS born 9.28.11
BFP#4 8.27.13 (EDD 5.6.14) DD born 4.23.14
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TTC started Oct '10
Me: AMA w/RSD, atypical PCOS w/IR, LPD and High Prolactin. Controlled HP post-loss.
DH: Low-T and borderline morph
18 cycles, 3 medicated w/RE to get to a BFP!
EDD 9/7/12, Saw HB @7w3d,missed m/c 1/30 @8w3d, d&c 2/8
11 AL cycles, 9 medicated/IUI cycles. All BFFN!
Moving forward with IVF
BFP#2 our little cycle break surprise on AL cycle 12! EDD 10/27/13
Beta #1: 41 Beta #2: 398; perfect u/s 3/11 hb @133bpm
u/s 3/25 one perfect hb @183 bpm, adjusted EDD 10/23/13
MaterniT21 and carrier screens normal. It's a girl!!!
Severe Pre-E, HFpEF, PE, AMA & IF= OAD
All IF/AL Welcome!
Our 3 Precious Angels That Left Us Too Soon
BFP #2-EDD 07/05/13 - Tater and Tot passed at 12w3d. D&C 1/17/13
BFP #3-EDD 12/19/13 - Peanut passed at 9w1d. D&C 05/31/13
Diagnosed with Hypothyroid 05/20/13
BFP #4 - 09/22/13 - DD#2 born 05/27/14
All Alers Welcome!
Off BC, NTNP since June 2011
Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012
First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12
8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS
Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10)
Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!