I have a good job that pays well. I was recently approached by a company and asked to apply for a higher paying but very different job. As I've started the 2ww I am ridiculously stressed about the idea of starting a new job when I could be pregnant.
Anyone else struggle to male these decisions while ttc
I agree with @lemonblossom3. I used to worry about how pregnancy timing would work with other aspects of life but once conceiving became a struggle, I stopped all of that. You don't want to look back with regret because TTC held you back from something. If the new job seems like a good fit for your and your family, I would go for it.
November 2010 - 10.5 week loss October2011 - DS (7) July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks) August 2015- DD (3) April 2018 - 5 week loss
Yup agree with all above....make the decision without that factor in mind.
Me: 32, DH: 33 DS #1: April 2010 DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
I would separate TTC from all other decisions. Things got better for me after I did that. We put off vacations, renovations, all kinds of stuff, and as the years passed we realized we were waiting our lives away for a hypothetical child we may never get.
Re: a new job!?!?
October 2011 - DS (7)
July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)
August 2015 - DD (3)
April 2018 - 5 week loss
Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
DS #1: April 2010
DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis