I'm sorry if this is an old topic, but I'm hoping to get some advice on this because my doctor's suggestions seem a little off to me, and I'm also having some issues with my Celiac Disease.
In my own research, I've found a lot of consistent information that a pregnant woman should only add about 300 calories to her diet. I've been eating about 1200 calories a day for about two years now, so I thought I would try to increase to 1500 when I got to the second trimester. I have, however, been careful not to starve myself, and if I'm hungry I eat, but I still stay at 1200. I asked my doctor about it at my last appointment to confirm this and she thought I was insane and told me I should be consuming a minimum of 2200 calories, and should gain no more than ten pounds. I have a hard time even eating 1500 calories, so 2200 seems near impossible to me! Friends I've talked to (all guys, by the way), tell me it's ridiculous and to just listen to my body. Especially my roommate. He sees how I eat and says I eat very healthy and not to push it, just eat when I'm hungry and don't worry if I'm taking in enough because my body will tell me. I agree, but would like some input from you girls as well.
On the other note, I have regular "episodes" related to my Celiac Disease. I was diagnosed nearly four years ago and I've been gluten-free since then, but I still have these strange episodes that will last anywhere from a week to a month in which I simply don't think I take in many nutrients at all. I get nauseated a lot in the mornings and will sometimes vomit, I feel malnutritioned in general and very weak and tired. I'll even look sick in the face. My stomach will also swell significantly to where in the past I've been asked if I was pregnant, but it's just swelling. Also, I can't seem to keep any food in my stomach for long. I will eat and ten minutes later it is literally already gone (not via vomiting) and it just appears as if nothing digested. I tend to eat a little more because things are passing through so quickly, and I'm almost constantly hungry and sick at the same time. Before I was pregnant, I would usually go on a liquid diet and drink Ensure just to try to get some nutrients in, and it's been fine, but now... Anyways, I'm concerned about the baby during these periods, as this is how I have been for about four days now, and I'm so worried the baby won't get everything he/she needs. I have told the doctor about my diet, but she just seemed to dismiss it. Does anyone else have any issues like this and perhaps have some insight? By the way, it's also suspected I have Crohn's Disease, which could be some of the cause of the issues. Unfortunately, the tests are going to run me about $800 up front, and they will not accept payments.
I'm sorry for a long post! Any advice is much appreciated!
Re: Pregnancy Nutrition
Married 12.14.12 TTC 01.01.14 BFP 02.26.14 MC 03.07.14 TTC again 05.01.14
If you are worried, grab a scale and weigh yourself to make sure you are gaining. If not, add some healthy calories. This is my strategy and I find it pretty low stress, compared to feeling anxious about meeting a calorie goal.
Like you, sometimes even that is difficult. I've added an extra protein shake (I have one for breakfast) on the days when I'm not going to get enough or days when food seems to go right through me. My OB did assure me that as long as the baby's growth looked good, even if I didn't gain weight I will be ok, that the baby was getting nutrients first.
I had a rough first trimester. Hope things get a little better for you. I know celiac's already makes life interesting.
2200 calories doesn't seem too high for a pregnant woman who is healthfully at 215lbs. But I think what @krendel1990 said is the best answer! All of the research demonstrates that listening to your body's cues for hunger and fullness while making healthy choices is far superior for health than focusing on calories.
Remember, weight is not as cleanly correlated with health as pop culture would have you believe. The real research demonstrates a stronger and more predictively valuable correlation between physical activity and health. So don't be afraid of calories!
I think listening to my body is the best thing to do, I'm mostly concerned with my CD issues and the fact that trying to eat more just makes me feel too full. But I'm at 14 weeks and I've lost 6.5 pounds so far...