Do you have an iPhone? I'm not sure how different android is, but on the iPhone...
At the bottom of the screen, hit where it says "community" like you're trying to get to the Jan'15 board. Right above that bar, there's a new one that pops up where you can hit "my birth club" or "all forums." Click "all forums." You'll find "My Inbox" on that list, which is where you can find your messages.
If you use the app (which I actually recommend), it's under the "Community" tab on the bottom - go there, then click "Go to my inbox".
If you use a browser on any mobile, at the top of the page on the left you should see something that says "Community > January 2015". Click the part that says "Community" and then "Inbox" is at the bottom of that screen.
Re: How do you check messages?
If you use a browser on any mobile, at the top of the page on the left you should see something that says "Community > January 2015". Click the part that says "Community" and then "Inbox" is at the bottom of that screen.
Off birth control March 2012 - Actively trying Sept 2012-April 2014
BFP on May 5th after Follistim & IUI #3