FTM here. So there have been times on this board that I've read something you need to know about babies that I didn't know (ex. that you can't put the baby in a coat while they are in the car seat). These times, of course, lead me into a panic. I now really want to get a good parenting book just so I know those basics (not really a parenting style type thing, just basic dos and don'ts). Does anyone have any recommendations?
Re: Parenting books
Your Baby's First Year Week by Week
You are going to make it up as you go along for the first few years. That's normal. Surround yourself with other moms - that's where your greatest resource will lie.
Eta: books will give you more milestones and medical stuff. The boards will go through philosophies and lifestyle stuff as well as different parenting methods. Like I would have never known about wonder weeks. And that's only 1 small example of the millions of things that get brought up.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
BFP#1-11/5/10- Surgery for ectopic pregnancy 11/15/10 BFP#2-11/1/11 Due 7/8/12 Born 6/30/12
Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
Honestly, even though I had a ton of experience with children given my nanny and teaching backgrounds, I truly didn't learn everything I know UNTIL I was pregnant and having a baby of my own. And I'm still learning!
Keep up with the bump (and hopefully fb if we ever get around to making a group) and you'll learn as you go. Don't be afraid to ask questions. Follow mommy blogs. Your best resources are going to be real people. So many books are biased and/or outdated. You'll learn as you go, promise.
BFP #1 5/12/12; EDD 1/20/13; Eliana Grace born 1/25/13
BFP #2 12/11/13; EDD 8/23/14; M/C 6 weeks
BFP #3 4/3/14; EDD 12/13/14