It's pretty rare for me to be a b*tch, and I'm typically very mild mannered and avoid conflict, but today I am on a role and I'm not proud of it.
1st, I needed Chick Fil A so badly this AM that it made me 12 mins late for work. When I walked in the door my co-worker had apparently already stopped and got chick fil a for the office but didn't tell me. She saw the bag in my hand and yelled "OH no you didn't!!!" and for some reason it really made me irrationally pissed off(hormones?) and MH said I gave her the death glare, then totally ignored her and walked right past her to the bathroom to pee. She approached me later to ask if I was OK and I just said yeah and kind of gave her the cold shoulder. I have no idea why she annoyed me so much but oh man, I could have punched her.
2nd, a guy that endlessly annoys the crap out of me with his ignorant FB posts started ranting about how Christian mission trips are comparable to ISIS and several people chimed in arguing against him and, as usual, his go to responses were "Holy defensiveness!", "it's just FB people!!" and "educate yourselves!". So annoying. So I posted a really bitchy comment calling him out on how he always makes outlandish, offensive claims and never has any back up other than above mentioned responses. He called me a bully and deleted the entire post.
And lastly, I complained about feeling a little nauseous after eating my desperately needed chik fil a biscuit and MH said "it seems you're nauseous no matter what you eat" and for some reason I took that to be him complaining about me be pregnant and being super negative about it all(which is kind of valid, just maybe not in this scenario) and not wanting this baby and blah blah blah and then I stormed out of his office.
I need to go apologize to all 3, I'm sure, but will most likely just avoid my co-worker all day, wait for the FB friend to defriend me, and then maybe apologize to MH for over reacting a teensy bit.
Gosh. Today has been super fun and it's not even 10:30.
Re: B*tch mode. (long)
Especially the chicken fil a. Pregnant lady food is serious business people!! I'm looking at you DH. I'm still mad he brought me the wrong donut and when I described the one I wanted he said "oh they had that". I said I hate you and walked away lol.
Married: 5/21/05 **~** Emery Aylin 6/30/12
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Oops we did it again... BFP 03/23/14 Due 12/6/14 Nora Born 11/23/14
@nesenotes LOL. "Oh they had that". I would have been pissed too!
I will say I think #2 was totally called for. I hate people of FB who make outlandish claims and post uneducated garbage. Bravo for finally calling him out.
As for your H, he should know a pregnant woman is a hormonal mess. He will love and understand that you are emotional.
I hope your day goes better!
I just wrote a message apologizing to the FB guy and he responded by writing on my wall "its all good in the hood no worries. All love" ugh. Now I'm regretting even wasting my time apologizing.
I also apologized to my co worker and MH. Those went well and I feel better.