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Do some research before you start labeling yourself....(losses mentioned)

CarSaidYesCarSaidYes member
edited August 2014 in Trouble TTC
So last night I had a friend refer to herself as infertile. I made a comment About a dragon fly that was flying around us and I said I hope that's a good luck sign because it's a symbol for infertility and I'm suppose to have IUI # 1 in like 2 weeks. She has no known health issues and has had two losses. One voluntary ((DONT GET ME STARTED. THATS A WHOLE ANOTHER DISCUSSION)) and one that wasn't voluntary. She knows that I am going through some issues of my own and I can't even make sense of why she's referred to herself as "infertile". Bitch you've been pregnant 2x since April!!!!!!!!!!!! Do some research before you start labeling yourself because you are seriously mistaken. Sorry. Just needed to vent. I'm still so annoyed about this.
Me: 26 (IC/PCOS-2000mg of Metformin daily)

June 2014- HSG=clear

DH: 27 (SA results were great minus the slightly low morphology)
Started dating DH in 2002 at 14 years old
Married on 03.01.2014
Officially TTC since April 2014 
January 2013- Surprise BFP, m/c at 6 weeks, D&C 2 Weeks later
April 2014- First RE appointment
July 2014- IUI#1-Canx due to scar tissue and polyps. TI with the help of Ovidrel. BFN

August 2014- Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue and polyp

September 2014- IUI #1.1-100mg Clomid, Ovideral, 11.5 million swimmers=BFP

EDD-6/3/15- Our sweet baby Ryan was born on 1/6/15 and is in the arms of an Angel

Dx with IC on 1/6/15



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Re: Do some research before you start labeling yourself....(losses mentioned)

  • gsanchogsancho member
    kkeglar13 said:
    Omg, twice since April!? I would hate to be as infertile as her! Smh.. People leave me speechless I swear.
    No kidding!


    Me 33, DH 37 -- TTC since Jan'12 -- Low AMH (0.78) & endo, SA w/ low motility
    IUI's 1-3 = BFN, IVF converted to IUI 4/13 = BFN
    IVF 1.2: 8R 6M 4F -- 2 blastocysts frozen, FET 8/15 = BFP!!
    Beta #s = 445;1,098; 9,545  -- EDD 5/2 -- Team Pink!
    Camila Josephine arrived 4/30 :)
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  • HollowvicHollowvic member
    @kkeglar13‌ lol seriously? I wish I was that "infertile"


    TTC #1

    Me: AMA, DH: MFI

    Official DX - MFI due to Hemochromatosis

    IVF #1 Nov. 2014 - ER 11/10 (10R 6M 6F) - ET 11/13 

    3DT of 3 embies - no frosties - CP = BFFN!!!!

    ****All Welcome****

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  • theholmanherdtheholmanherd member
    Wow, seriously? Slap a bitch!
    Love 2010 | Marriage 2011 | TTC #1 since 2012
    PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole
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  • BunnyBerryBunnyBerry member
    Wow, I'm so sorry. If that girl's face isn't messed up, you should consider yourself a saint. :)
    January 3T Siggy Challenge - New Year's Resolutions
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    Me (29), DH (30) TTC actively 54 55+ cycles | All BFNs
    MFI (low everything) | Endo Stage 1 & Stenotic Cervix (treated) | PCO
    Married - July 2008 | Started TTC - Jan 2009 | RE Visit #1 - Mar 2014 
    IUI #1 ICI #1 - June | IUI #1.1 Laparoscopy - Aug
    IUIs #1.2, 2, 3 - Sept, Oct, Nov (Letrozole) - BFNs 
    IUI #4 - Dec (Bravelle) | IUI #5 - Dec/Jan (Bravelle) - 5 follies + TI - BFNs
    IUI #5.1 - Jan (Bravelle) Cancelled 
    Planning to start IVF in March!
    ***All Welcome***
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  • adejdeadejde member
    I really hope you put her in her place!

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    Once my sister came to me whining about how she was pretty sure she was infertile (me of all people, when I had been trying for almost 2 years at time time) because she didn't get pregnant when she had been trying for 3 months! And when she finally got pregnant, she promptly texted me her digi BFP and went on and on about how it was probably a false positive for no reason whatsoever. Ugh!
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  • Champs28Champs28 member
    I agree with @rumbera28 too- and I'm in love with the fact that people on this board can disagree respectfully and kindly and intelligently. Truly remarkable on an Internet forum :)
    TTC since 2013 (grad of 3T)
    EDD: May 24, 2015
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  • CarSaidYesCarSaidYes member
    Hey guys I wanted to clarify a few things. I too have suffered from losses so I know the pain she is feeling 100%. I get it. But I also know that being labeled with any disorder or condition requires test, visits to the dr, Ect. I think it just bothered me because she knows the time, money and effort I've put in to this. She is a wonderful person and I think she realized she said something stupid. So when she said it I quickly nipped it in the butt and said you really don't get this whole ttc thing do you? I said just because you suffered a loss doesn't make you infertile. I told her how my dr said not to seek help until it happens 3x in a row so. before you go giving your self a label why don't you see a dr and get some test done. I said I've spent a pretty penny, given more blood than I can't count and been in stir ups at the dr more times than I'd like to admit. She knew I was annoyed and changed the subject. @Rumbera28‌ I'm sorry if it hit a nerve with you and I understand what you are saying completely. But I have no one else to vent to about this situation and I know the ladies here understand.
    Me: 26 (IC/PCOS-2000mg of Metformin daily)

    June 2014- HSG=clear

    DH: 27 (SA results were great minus the slightly low morphology)
    Started dating DH in 2002 at 14 years old
    Married on 03.01.2014
    Officially TTC since April 2014 
    January 2013- Surprise BFP, m/c at 6 weeks, D&C 2 Weeks later
    April 2014- First RE appointment
    July 2014- IUI#1-Canx due to scar tissue and polyps. TI with the help of Ovidrel. BFN

    August 2014- Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue and polyp

    September 2014- IUI #1.1-100mg Clomid, Ovideral, 11.5 million swimmers=BFP

    EDD-6/3/15- Our sweet baby Ryan was born on 1/6/15 and is in the arms of an Angel

    Dx with IC on 1/6/15



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  • shirleymaebyshirleymaeby member
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    -----------------------------------SIGGY WARNING-------------------------------------


    Me: 31| DH: 36
    TTC #1 Since 07/2010
    DX: Unexplained Infertility
    TX: 
    IUI #1 on 7/3/14 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (44 million sperm, 1 dominant follie) = BFN
    IUI #2: on 7/28/14 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (23 million sperm, 2 dominant follies) = BFN

    IUI #3 on 8/22/2014 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (53 million sperm, 2 dominant follies)= BFP MMC @ 7weeks


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