Thank you @mrsbtobe20122 and @laura3462. I am concerned because my LO isn't quite gaining the average. At this point my pedi isn't concerned, but I am.
Thank you @florassecret. I guess I'm concerned because my family comments on how small she is. Pedi said she falls just right under average. I guess I'm concerned because my family has also commented about maybe she's not getting enough to eat EBF. She is happy after eating and seems satisfied. I am letting me insecurities (and others opinions) creep in.
If your pedi isnt worried I wouldn't either. I have a perfectly healthy 7.5 year old that only weighs 43 pounds. Shes just little and always has been. This LO is 16 weeks and weighs 12.5, she will probably be small too.
Thank you everyone, seriously thank you for helping me squash these worries. Being a FTM and listening to the opinions of boisterous families sunk me a bit. Thanks for pulling me up!
@thefussybunch I completely understand how you feel. My family likes to give me opinions also. My sister had me in tears saying my DD should be tracking objects and saying she may have eye problems. She was a month and a half at the time. My lo is just fine!
Thank you @florassecret. I guess I'm concerned because my family comments on how small she is. Pedi said she falls just right under average. I guess I'm concerned because my family has also commented about maybe she's not getting enough to eat EBF. She is happy after eating and seems satisfied. I am letting me insecurities (and others opinions) creep in.
If babe is healthy and thriving size doesn't matter. Its all details.
I get the opposite. Joke is that DS doesn't miss a meal. And that he's huge when I tell people he's 3 and half months. Personally I don't think he's big. He's got rolls yes, but he's long.
Mine is EBF and little too. I get comments from complete strangers about how tiny she is. Really upsetting. I just keep reminding myself that she has plenty of wet and dirty diapers, is gaining each week, and seems satisfied. The pedi isn't worried.
Re: How many oz gained per week?
Mrs. B's Ovulation Chart
TTC Baby B since 10/2012
BFP#1 12/27/12 II TWIN GIRLS II D&C 2/15/13 TRAP sequence
Clomid + TI + Acupuncture x 2 cycles
BFP#2 9/5/13 II EDD 5/16/14 II Beckett Ryan born May 10, 2014
If bf please see this link https://kellymom.com/bf/normal/weight-gain/
If your pedi isn't then either there is no need for concern. But if you are then get a second opinion.
Good point. If you don't trust your provider's opinion, get another one. There needs to be trust in that relationship.
FWIW. LO was 6lb14 oz at birth, is 15lb 5oz now at 14 weeks. EBF.
Mrs. B's Ovulation Chart
TTC Baby B since 10/2012
BFP#1 12/27/12 II TWIN GIRLS II D&C 2/15/13 TRAP sequence
Clomid + TI + Acupuncture x 2 cycles
BFP#2 9/5/13 II EDD 5/16/14 II Beckett Ryan born May 10, 2014