What happened?

hopeby2015 · August 2014

What happened to the infertility check ins? Anyone know why they are deleted? TIA

TXUltraRunner · August 2014

NariaDreaming said:
Calindi requested that her account be deleted.

What? Geez. I think the one who needed deletion was the drama llama stalker.

BookitBoo · August 2014

What??

motherboy · August 2014

Are you serious? She was one of my (and a lot of others) favorites. I'm sorry some rude person intruded into those threads to attack her. That really blows.

Stargirlb · August 2014

whoa, anyone know what happened?

TXUltraRunner · August 2014

Stargirlb said:
whoa, anyone know what happened?

Someone created an account solely to attack her over a comment made on an infertility check in back in July. She expressed valid feelings over a situation and the person in question internet stalked her.

BookitBoo · August 2014

Seriously?? Where was this? I hope that they were dealt with and she can come back

That is awful

MusicFanatic · August 2014

danakatiepfoltzer · August 2014

@calindi‌ come back!!

People are lame ... I hope that sicko was banned.

BookitBoo · August 2014

I want her to come back

I hope she feels comfortable doing so.

Milagros315 · August 2014

Yep, it was fucked up. I'm sorry that I didn't get a chance to report her before I went to work, but it sounds like Naria is on top of it. I bet Calindi will come back sooner or later!

Beauxbaton · August 2014

What in the actual fuck? Who the hell gets off on harassing people on the internet?!

mandikins27 · August 2014

Why do the good leave and the trolls stay

unfair

Milagros315 · August 2014

@mrsjoslyn16‌ - She wasn't banned, she requested for her account to be deleted/closed.

TXUltraRunner · August 2014

ladyamanuet said:
I don't understand. She had feelings about her own situation and someone created an account to stalk her about it? That's terrible!

It was a situation involving the stalker that she posted her feelings about.

Stargirlb · August 2014

hopefully she just terminated the account to cut off the stalker and will be back with a new one

Lanatir · August 2014

We love you, Calindi!

I see the brief summary, and I'm sorry you went through that! That's horrible!

:x

NatureLovers · August 2014

Man, this is so fucked up. I hope Calindi comes back!

longcat07 · August 2014

oh no. i really like calindi. i too hope she comes back under another name when she feels safe.

luciddreamer106 · August 2014

Oh no! That is is awful. I hope she feels comfortable coming back here.

hopeby2015 · August 2014

That's insane! I must've missed that post! I really liked her too and wish her the best! Hope she comes back!

[Deleted User] · August 2014

The user and all related content has been deleted.

tarala · August 2014

What?! I missed the last check in! Who does that? I am glad other infertility sisters stood up for her! I would have done the same! I hope she comes back- she is awesome!

southernyankeegirl · August 2014

Nothing like a self-banning to make a girl feel loved ;-)

Thanks for missing me, y'all! My newb purgatory has been lifted for my new screen name. Hoping Crazypants doesn't find me again (or preferably simply stops stalking my posts) but even still, glad to have a fresh start without any breadcrumbs of personal data that I had left over the years on my last screen name!

I am BACK! :-D

MusicFanatic · August 2014

southernyankeegirl said:

Nothing like a self-banning to make a girl feel loved ;-) Thanks for missing me, y'all! My newb purgatory has been lifted for my new screen name. Hoping Crazypants doesn't find me again (or preferably simply stops stalking my posts) but even still, glad to have a fresh start without any breadcrumbs of personal data that I had left over the years on my last screen name! I am BACK! :-D

welcome backkkkk!

tarala · August 2014

@southernyankeegirl Welcome Back girl!

BookitBoo · August 2014

YAY!

LadyXaverian · August 2014

Glad you're back. I'm sorry this all happened. By the time @ICarriedAWatermelon and I were tagged and actually saw the report, @NariaDreaming had already done the moderating on request because of personal information that was being revealed by the stalker. Sometimes these things can go on for days, and sometimes everything happens super fast.

@NariaDreaming what happened to the stalker? Was she banned? If not, I need to go back and find her and figure out what to do.

southernyankeegirl · August 2014

@LadyXaverian‌ - I know the stalker IRL. She's a reg on TB under another SN (which I know but won't put her on blast - NMS

) I can explain more in PM if you care or need to know.

She knows my personal details because we used to be IRL friends. She's apparently been following my posts for quite awhile, which I doubt a banning would stop her from doing. So I honestly don't care if she's banned (though from creating an AE to harass me and post personal info, she would deserve it for sure!).

Mostly I just hope she learns to live her life and stop following what's going on in mine. It'd be fabulous if she just forgot I existed ;-)