April 2015 Moms

Last one twin now just have one

We went through ivf to get pregnant. We did a two egg transfer and by 5 weeks I started bleeding so I went to the dr and they did an ultra sound and saw to sacs and said I had no bleeding from my utrus so all was fine. We went back 4 days later for another check up and this time there was only one sac and one heart beat. I felt so sad and like it was my fault some how. Now I am Soo worried about our remaining baby. We were able to see the heart beat not hear cause it's still to small. Any advice?

Re: Last one twin now just have one

  • So sorry for your loss. The only thing you can do is have faith, share your feelings if you need to, and take comfort in the very great odds that your surviving baby is going to be just fine. Again, so sorry- I did IVF and lost the first, then did another round and ended up with twins. It's just a horribly difficult process.
     
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  • Very sorry for your loss. My neighbor had the same thing happen to her. Her Dr. said it's commonly referred to as "the disappearing twin"
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  • I'm sorry for your loss but I can assure you that you did nothing wrong. Don't blame yourself, please.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss of a twin. Big hugs hun

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  • Hi , I am cirrently going through the exact same thing. I still have light brown spotting from time to time since I lost but the other babies heart is beating and all looks good for now . I will say a little prayer for you :)
  • So sorry for your loss. I assure you it was not your fault.
  • I'm so sorry :(
  • So sorry for your loss. We also just went through our 2nd IVF with 2 embryos and one stuck again. Please don't blame yourself and focus on your little one. ♡
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