Sex frequency

Colleen12589 · August 2014

Ok, so DH is getting frustrated and I just want to see how often very one else is "doin it" so I don't feel so bad (hopefully)

goldngirl24 · August 2014

Not sure where this fits, but since I'm 27 weeks now... Our frequency has slowed down a lot in the past month. DH is concerned about my comfort... It's hard for me to find a position I feel comfortable in, and not squish my belly. V feels weird too and I just feel awkward. My drive hasn't slowed at all so this hasn't been easy!

shan24 · August 2014

I voted little sex. It's not that I only give it up when I have to, but I'm definitely not as interested in it as I was before.

missnacholover · August 2014

we used to be 2-3 x/week and now it's once, if that. I'm just not comfortable and don't exactly feel sexy.

Maelara · August 2014

About once every two weeks. My DHs sex drive always slows when I'm pregnant. I honestly think he doesn't find it attractive and makes him uncomfortable. Last time it bothered me but Im more understanding this time. His sex drive comes back ten fold once the baby is born and I'm given the go ahead. Looking forward to that

soulcupcake · August 2014

Anywhere from once or twice a week or once every two weeks. It's pretty uncomfortable at times, and he's very sympathetic and understanding.

Last time was two weeks ago.

Colleen12589 · August 2014

Ok, thanks ladies, I'm not feeling too bad anymore

I'm just uncomfortable, exhausted, hurting, and not feeling sexy at all! I feel bad but not really bad enough to pretend I'm interested in sex

NunyaBennis · August 2014

Maelara said:
About once every two weeks. My DHs sex drive always slows when I'm pregnant. I honestly think he doesn't find it attractive and makes him uncomfortable. Last time it bothered me but Im more understanding this time. His sex drive comes back ten fold once the baby is born and I'm given the go ahead. Looking forward to that

Fingers crossed in hope of return...

My husband has always had an erratic libido, more often on the sluggish side with glorious periods of intensity. He is currently extremely aware of my squirming belly, though, and focuses more on my/her comfort than anything else. Sex has been pretty awkward, but we attempt it as often as I can keep his attention. My drive has stayed revved up since morning sickness passed, so I'm the maniac buying batteries in bulk.

jmichlik · August 2014

The last time we did it was when I got pregnant with this baby... our sex life has always been unusual, couldn't do anything for years until I found out I had a vaginal septum and had it removed, so honestly for us it's not that weird. I'm sure things will get going again once the baby is born

morrkim · August 2014

We were about the same if not a little more, but after my last appointment DH is afraid it will trigger labor.

AnnieRoo13 · August 2014

We haven't had sex since I got pregnant and it's not by my choice! DH feels uncomfortable with it and I guess I don't really blame him, but as I get bigger I don't see it happening anytime soon

lovingaddi · August 2014

A little less then before BFP. We're about 1-2 times a week, sometimes more/sometimes less.

JamieK1882 · August 2014

Twice since BFP but that's fine with both of us.

dbgwife · August 2014

We went from 4-5 times a week (this pregnancy is different than my other two drastically), to little to no sex in the last two weeks. Everything is swollen, hurts, and I just do not feel desirable anymore. He's been through it before so he gets it. Now a couple times a week I "help him out" and he's a happy guy. It's soo normal for things to slow down by now though. With my girls sex was a total chore, I had no desire, and I only did it for him. It got to where we pretty much didn't have sex and I just "helped him out" most the pregnancy.

MmmPopcorn · August 2014

Same as before we got our BFP (which isn't SUPER often because of our incompatible schedules, but when it works out, we do the sex). We even managed it this morning. I'm surprisingly MORE comfortable during pregnant sex than non-pregnant sex. I expected the opposite, and I'm counting my lucky stars.

mslynn2012 · August 2014

Used to be 2-3 times a week. Now it's more like 2-3 times a month.

Boo

Kehlepop · August 2014

Once a week, which is a little more often than before. My OB recommended that and DH won't let me forget. He says things like, it's time for your weekly sex injection! Like we're in a cheesy porno, lol!

creativesoul83 · August 2014

I voted little sex. he always wants it, I don't. I love it..... sometimes. but unfortunately I have more excuses I can use to get out of it.. when I want it I want it. poor dh he is a trooper.

I don't feel sexy. I am not as big as I am in profile pic I am smaller all over but my tummy is bigger of course. I just don't like it I feel like a weeble wobble that does fall down.

smboswell1 · August 2014

I was on pelvic rest because of my placenta. My placenta has moved, so I don't know if I will be having sex or not. I've hade it maybe 5 times since we found out. Before that, it varied!

KMW08 · August 2014

When we were trying, it was like a week long sex-fest during ovulation, then maybe once a week the other weeks.

Now, it's pretty sparse. Like 2-3times a month. I have no desire and also have bouts of swelling down there. It bums me out because this should be a free time to sex it up all we want

:o3

mommymeg143 · August 2014

Man, I came in to see if our Catholic friend had posted. She loves all the seckks. I'm disappointed to see that she didn't stop in.

Cici3913 · August 2014

I feel terrible about our frequency. It's maybe about once a week. I'm just not comfortable anymore. And it's soooooo dry down there. Tmi I know, but this is no fun

dbgwife · August 2014

mommymeg143 said:
Man, I came in to see if our Catholic friend had posted. She loves all the seckks. I'm disappointed to see that she didn't stop in.

She's too busy getting it on, and posting to Facebook!

kstirton · August 2014

We've had sex 3 times since the BFP and that was all between 10 and 20 weeks. Lately I've felt like my PH balance is SO off (Gina is dry/irritated feeling) I don't want to give her any more of a reason to act up. That and I don't feel sexy AT ALL. Hubs has got a BJ out of the deal, I probably need to be nicer and amp those up w/ all the stuff he's been doing around here. /:)

highbornhunter · August 2014

Got some this morning -- This is my happy dance!

lesliegolem · August 2014

We are still at about once a week but I don't see that lasting too much longer. I am so swollen and my back hurts a lot. Too I just got my first hemorrhoid so I'm a mess. Its sweet my hubby still wants to a lot but just not realistic. Funny with the last one had sex until over 40 weeks! Don't see that happening. At least we're almost done.

crystaldh · August 2014

Just as my libido really started to soar, my OB told me no sex because of a low-lying placenta. Ho hum...

hjenni · August 2014

I haven't felt in the mood since BFP really until recently and now I'm REALLY in the mood. We've only done it about twice since February but that's all about to change.

Soonergirl131 · August 2014

DH and I have been back to 3-4 times a week since we hit 2nd trimester, I feel like my sex drive has increased with pregnancy and as long as I'm not uncomfortable he's all for it.

tigerpawie · August 2014

I picked same as normal but we don't do the deed frequently during the week because we work a lot and I have IBS so it depends on my flare ups. I would say we tend to about 5 times a month which isn't 'active' but active enough in my books. Haha. I think we can't go even two weeks without jumping eachother bones. Right now BIL and family is staying w us for a month and because we were so busy the past two weeks, we haven't gotten any and we're anxious. (I'm told the bed creaks terribly, I'm kind of loud and they're next door in the nursery)

One consolation, they're leaving for another town about 5 hrs drive to visit other side of family for one week today so I get me some FI time for one week then they come back for another two weeks. We can hold out!

I can't help but wonder how we are going to tolerate the 6 weeks no sex rule after birth. :-/

Dana633 · August 2014

I am always in the mood, although it can be difficult at times, I'm always wanting it. I voted "same as before", before BFP we had sex 3 times a week, now it's about 1-2 times but not because of pregnancy. Hubby started a new job about 6 weeks ago and he gets home later so we don't always go to bed at the same time

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absolutelymaybe · August 2014

I voted "no sex - his/my choice" but really, it's not anyone's choice. It just doesn't happen. :-(

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